If you could pick the sex of your child/children

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have chosen all girls. I have girl/boy now. While having a boy has been lovely and I’m glad I didn’t get my way, still hoping for the 3rd to be a girl!

Your poor son.

Amazing how sorry DCUMers feel for my rich, happy, healthy kids.

Didn’t think it was possible to make your initial comment worse but it’s telling to see what you choose as your first qualifier ABOUT YOIR CHILDREN. Just wow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you asked me before I had kids, I would say boy then girl. But now I have 2 boys, ages 8 and 10. And I wouldn’t change a thing.

Agreed. Two boys is amazing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have chosen all girls. I have girl/boy now. While having a boy has been lovely and I’m glad I didn’t get my way, still hoping for the 3rd to be a girl!

Omg same. I actually had to check the date to see if I wrote this.

I have a girl then a boy. I wanted #2 to be a girl soooo badly. I wanted my daughter to have a same sex sibling. We’re TTC #3 and hope it’s a girl. We’re thrilled either way, we just think life is better for girls and they’re a bit easier to raise.

Uh ... what!?! Your last sentence is like from bizarro world.

[Anonymous]

My kids are rich. That was the most dcum thing I've ever seen in dcum

[Anonymous]

Keep feeling sorry for my kids y'all. My poor, poor kids. Cry some tears for them. Light a candle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you?

Which sex would you pick?

If you have 2+ children which sex would you pick to be born first?

Does t matter to you at all?



In theory, I would pick son and daughter, but I have primarily only seen myself with a daughter(s). I think I only envisioned myself one with a son. But if I picked I think it would go son , then daughter, and I think that is for no other reason than I have an older brother, and it worked out nicely in my family of origin.

NO and NO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kids are rich. That was the most dcum thing I've ever seen in dcum

+1

[Anonymous]

I have girls, and I would have chosen girls (if possible).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Only girls for me. You can find out now at 9 weeks and make your decision.

I’m very pro abortion but you’re a monster. I believe my kids were fated to come to me. Why abort a wanted child when you’re in a good life situation?

Umm, she only wants girls. Her body, her family, her choice. Some women only want non-different families: no Down Syndome, no Little Person, no triplets, no no no to many possible kinds of children.. Again, woman' choice. No monster about it. I totally support her. Everyone draws their line in the sand at a different place as to what kind of child/family they are willing to birth and raise. Especially if you are only planning one child, you want what you want. We have the right to control that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Only girls for me. You can find out now at 9 weeks and make your decision.

I’m very pro abortion but you’re a monster. I believe my kids were fated to come to me. Why abort a wanted child when you’re in a good life situation?

It is not a wanted child. It's a male fetus. The PP answered the OP's question and said she wants a girl. Are you incapable of understanding -- just because your answer would be different -- that the PP is answering a pointed question?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous[b wrote:]Firstborns tend to be a little bossy, are often the most successful and protective of younger siblings, so I’d pick a boy.[/b] Would want a girl after that, followed by a boy again, then a girl again. Same sex siblings can to be most competitive with each other do the girls/ boys spaced out would be nice.

I'd pick a girl as the first for the same reasons, ha.

[Anonymous]

We adopted and I really wanted a girl. We were chosen for a boy and I love being a boy mom.

[Anonymous]

Before ever having kids, I wanted a girl. But I loved my boy so much I wanted another boy so he could have a brother, and I got a girl. I had a third and got another girl. We’re going to have another boy. I love ALL my kids in whatever order they came!

[Anonymous]

We always said we wanted a boy. When we were pregnant we decided not to find out the sex. The entire time I just felt it was a girl, and I was kind of disappointed because we always talked about having a boy. When the baby was born the doctor announced that it was a girl, I was completely not surprised and still a little disappointed. Two years later, I cannot imagine having a boy. I love having a girl, and being a girl mom and I am so so so glad she is not a boy. So funny how things change.

[Anonymous]

I would have chosen boy, girl, boy.

I got boy, girl, girl and thank god!!! I can’t imagine my family any other way. My youngest daughter is an absolute gift from heaven and my son is the gentlest, sweetest big brother to two girls.