Wow! You are excitable. I don’t have to have any qualifications. It’s the system. I set up a meeting, go to annual training and fill out the interview grid. I respond to follow up inquiries. I respond to the local alumni coordinator that sends recommendations to the school. The school makes a decision. When kids opt out you forward the email to the powers that be so they stop sending emails about why you have not completed the interview. What happens then is that the school moves onto the thousands of applicants that fully participate in the process. I don’t think the schools run after kids that choose not to participate in the process when they are in such great demand. |
| If a student received an email stating an alumnus will be in touch to set up an interview, can student decline? From the previous posts it sounds like an interview can only hurt, not help, their chances. My DC is socially awkward but a good conversationalist if the conditions are right. |
Way to dodge the question. What gives you the qualifications to evaluate this talent. Nothing. Thank you. Mic Dropped. It's clear the argument is over. |
If they don’t but once your contacted you are scheduled and rejected/ not making time whatever is not for the faint of heart. Try it on your kid and repot back. |
Your third sentence says it all. Why would you participate and sponsor such an activity when you aren't qualified? |
I would use your best judgement. If some the posters on here are actual interviewers as they claim, I wold be concerned. Some of them seem to be arrogant dismissive people and I would hesitate to respect their judgment of a socially awkward teen. They may flag that DC as disastrous for being awkward. |
DC is at M or S if he did not do the interview!!! Or DC did the interview if you live in an area that has 100% coverage like DC, NY or Boston. |
This is part of that real life thing that your young adult is going to have to deal with. I don’t have any particular qualifications to hire or fire employees for my organization, and yet I do. You have put such extreme pressure on your poor kid and have hyped up “Harvard or your future is done” so that I will get yet another applicant who is terrified of saying the wrong thing that they say nothing interesting and just give beauty pageant answers. Interviewing for something you want is part of life and you don’t get to deem the process not good enough for your kid. Your kid is special to you, but in this area a qualified candidate is a dime a dozen. The acceptance rate is about five percent, and that’s kind of what I’m tracking as well over the years. Just tell them to be themselves. |
Judgy much? How does functioning at a Starbucks tie in with functioning in an intellectual setting? Ever heard of an absent-minded professor? |
I know plenty of socially awkward disasters that went to ivy league schools. |
Yeah, women's college alum here. It is EXTREMELY obvious if the girl being interviewed actually doesn't want to go to a women's college but is being coerced by a family member into applying. Seems like a good thing to share with the admissions office. |
Shrugs. That's how the schools see themselves. They are elite schools and that comes with all the implications. They are not interested in students who just want to show up to class and wing the guts and graduate early and never look back. They are interested in students who can offer something meaningful as part of the student body. They are quite serious about the concept of four years of academic curiosity. They are also quite serious about getting the students out in four years too. They certainly don't care if you think it sounds like an elitist prick. Your problem, not theirs. |
Why? if women's colleges dig all the applicants that are encouraged by their moms to attend but are hesitant because they are 17 year old girls, you are out a lot of smart girls. Have more patience. But above post is a good example of the perils of the alumni interview. |
| FWIW We have a friend who interviews for a HYPMS. Not in this area. He takes it seriously and said he only writes positive things about the studen. Wouldn’t want to be responsible for impeding their chances. |
Meant ding all those applicants. |