Me again. There's a difference between 'hesitant or unsure' vs. announcing that you are only applying to this one as a safety in case you don't get into harvard or princeton, or focussing exclusively on what forms of transportation would be best to get you to the schools in the nearby big city that have boys, and how often do the buses or trains go, and how many days would you actually have to be on campus, etc. I've heard it all! |
I don't think interviewers are worried about socially awkward teens. There's socially awkward, and there's disturbed. The latter is what the schools are concerned about. Like the unabomber who'd gone to Harvard. |
That sounds as it should be. But there are clearly others out there with a different agenda if this thread is to be believed. |
17 is 17. there are some brilliant motivated 17 year old girls that are also focused on getting a date. It is possible to multitask. But if you object to that as their interviewer, they arei n trouble. |
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Don't know why those interviewers take on the task to conduct the interviews when they know they are already pretty detached from the schools and know little about what nowadays students are up to. Frankly they often embarrass themselves during the interviews. They have near zero impact on the student admissions. And they know it.
I am not against schools offering interviews, but when they do they should give the interviewers some training and they then should really take into account their opinions out of the interviews on the students. Otherwise, it's just waste of time on all parties, and no one will take it seriously. |
| The parents attacking the interview process should really evaluate if the Ivy League is appropriate for their student. It seems they might be better off at a large state school where their kids won’t repeatedly be subject to peer, professor and club reviews. At my HPY school almost every activity, academic organization or club had a trail or interview by the organizations membership... Mostly “unqualified students” and sometimes faculty.... It’s very difficult to change tradition so be sure that you have your eyes wide open about the environment. As to Mr 3 years it is arrogant and shows a lack of curiosity of learning which is pretty much against the mission. Why not give the spot to someone who wants to absorb as much as possible and create something great. 3 years can go to trade school. |
There is annual training and a 40 page instruction booklet for my HPY. People interview to give back, to watch their interviewees graduate and to support the institution. People want to make a difference. You obviously did not go to one of these schools. You seem very angry and incredibly naive. |
Be serious. For every Brett Kavanaugh conducting an interview there is a young Christine Blassy Ford being interviewed. The possibilities for a terrible interview mismatch rare not that remote. The ivy league is not some paragon of i virtue. It is difficult to change traditions including that crappy traditions. Get real. |
Being on the outlook for a congenital liar with a tendency to make up stories is certainly something a school might expect of their alum interviewers. The top colleges don't care what you think. Next applicant, please. |
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The mixed quality is to be expected because
1) they are relying on volunteers 2) and the schools have mixed motives (one of which is to keep alumni engaged). |
How many interviews have you been in the last 5 years? |
Your entitlement is showing. It’s their school and system. My kids had crappy and great interviewers but I never thought entitled to trash the whole system. Wow! Anyway you are suppose to do it in a public place with people around so that is not really an issue. (Library, Starbucks ... a place a kid would normally go). But really just tell your kid not to apply and you will have protected them from “unqualified” interviewers. At graduation you can laugh at the suckers going Ivy that interviewed. |
Yes, admissions committees of selective colleges do make judgments. They have 20 applicants for each spot. They don't admit kids with low grades or kids who can't turn in their applications on time. By the same token, they don't need to admit kids who can't make and keep an appointment, a skill that their professors will require. They don't admit kids whose parents call up and scream at the interviewer or who get friends who are graduates of the university to call and try to influence the interviewer. They do admit plenty of kids who are socially awkward. These are private institutions who set their own admissions criteria. It's oddly ironic that there are objections to this from a Big 3 parent. The Big 3 use much more subjective admissions criteria, like whether Dad is a mover and shaker, and they interview the whole family. |
Sorry. I should have indicated I am a DP. Either go to the interview or not. It doesn’t make a huge impact one way or the other. |
Yeah. Makes total sense. Let’s never question the establishment. That’s led to great things. Thank you Mr. Republican. |