Where to find a no-strings attached affair partner

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Anonymous wrote:Any luck OP?

Some nibbles on tinder. Had a “date” for drinks and to see if we had chemistry tonight but he canceled.

We’ll see.

PM me

You sound like a creepy predator.

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Anonymous wrote:Any married women ever have trouble finding an AP? While I am skeptical that most married men would cheat at the drop of a hat, I am sure at least a quarter to half would so if OP expresses interest in a couple different men one will come through real soon.

Men don't use prostitutes because they want to, it's often the only choice for NSA

Oh you are sure, huh? Whatever the real number may be, it's just as high for women. Believe me, I know.

Man or woman doesn't matter. There are low quality people everywhere willing to do anything for money or not.

Some people live dysfunctional lives by choice.

And some people are having a great time and lots of amazing sex. Jealous much?

Yes many married people who don't have to troll sites for garbage! Jealous much? Well then change your circumstances, raise the bar.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why don't you put the effort into your marriage and try to get the spark back? No plans to divorce must mean its worth fighting for?

No. It just means we are financially tied together in ways too difficult to untangle without damaging our kids.

I’ve been to therapy. I’ve tried getting his attention. I’ve tried pretty much everything. I haven’t had sex in 7 years. And I don’t remember the last time I had good sex.

Divorce. You can separate your finances and still be good parents. You might even find a great partner.

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Here OP, this might help you.

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Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

How do you work it? Tried it and it has been largely a bomb - advice welcome.

It's about 10 men for every woman on there, if you exclude hookers and bots. Which is fairly representative of real life, for every woman looking to cheat, 10 men are available which is depressing to think that most married men are DTF if the opportunity presents itself. If you are a woman, be prepared to be inundated

Accurate^^. But it’s not depressing for the reason you stated. Most of these men wouldn’t be on AM at all if not for their disinterested wives. The men would happily remain faithful if not for infrequent sex at home. So for men, AM is a marriage survival tactic. The depressing part of this is how few wives actually want to f$k their husbands. That is why every married man in DC is available to any woman who approaches.

Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

[Anonymous]

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

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Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

How do you work it? Tried it and it has been largely a bomb - advice welcome.

It's about 10 men for every woman on there, if you exclude hookers and bots. Which is fairly representative of real life, for every woman looking to cheat, 10 men are available which is depressing to think that most married men are DTF if the opportunity presents itself. If you are a woman, be prepared to be inundated

Accurate^^. But it’s not depressing for the reason you stated. Most of these men wouldn’t be on AM at all if not for their disinterested wives. The men would happily remain faithful if not for infrequent sex at home. So for men, AM is a marriage survival tactic. The depressing part of this is how few wives actually want to f$k their husbands. That is why every married man in DC is available to any woman who approaches.

Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

The thing is most APs eventually call the wife. Or let her know in some way because they end up jealous. They know their life is crap, when DH leaves it's reminds her she has no one. She knows she's only a hole in the mattress. fyi there's always strings attached. Imo it's never worth my spouse or kids hating me, over a stranger - no way. No pos is worth that. Bruce Hay got what he deserved, cheaters get with other cheaters so no surprise. His wife and kids didn't deserve any of that. He brought criminals into their lives. That's what cheaters do, they are bringing in who knows what kind of element.

[Anonymous]

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

[Anonymous]

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Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

To be sure, if a random woman propositioned me, my first thought would not be, "she is a lesbian married to a tranny and plans to blackmail me into paying for a kid that's not mine because I am incapable of ejaculation"...

Yeah but the odds are she's going to end up telling your spouse. My sil found out her husband was cheating because the OW went to their home. Sil told the lady, "yes Joe is here". When the lady came in and exchanged words she beat the crap out of her then threw her out of their apartment. The lady pressed charges, but since she came to their home and went inside they were dropped. Sil also got a restraining order on her. Still with her husband, but I think he wears a ankle bracelet, lol...or something similar.

Bah, some men can manage their AP better than that. If you do it right she will have no idea what your real name is or where you live.

You are too funny.

She can read your license plate number and run it. If you're cheating why care if your wife finds out. You're out of the relationship at that point. It's just a matter of time. Then you and AP don't have to hide.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

How do you work it? Tried it and it has been largely a bomb - advice welcome.

It's about 10 men for every woman on there, if you exclude hookers and bots. Which is fairly representative of real life, for every woman looking to cheat, 10 men are available which is depressing to think that most married men are DTF if the opportunity presents itself. If you are a woman, be prepared to be inundated

For a man, those are not bad odds. All you have to do is not be like those other guys. Talk to any woman who has been on AM, as I have, and have her show you her messages. Guys are so Fing dumb or just disgusting. Picture a bunch of really hungry married guys who think they are ordering Pssy like it's a pizza, most of who have zero game with woman and have tried to seduce one since they met their wives.

First off, almost all the messages you get on AM are bullshit. They all say, "CheatingMary may be looking for someone like you" or one of ten other messages they repeat. Don't bother looking at anything besides checking, who looked at my profile. Then write to her and her only. NEVER use priority mail, which is checked by default. You need to un-check it. And don't mention anything about sex when writing. You both know why you are there. Do reference something in her profile, ask her a few safe questions about herself, and volunteer something about yourself, but not your pitiful, sexless marriage.

Have a woman look over and help you edit your profile. Do not say, "not looking to make any changes.." blah blah blah. Do not mention your spouse at all or you lack of sex or anything else that sounds sad. Your goal is to simply get someone to write back to you and start a dialogue that could eventually lead to a first meeting in a safe place. I've written on this before in great length. I'll try to find it.

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For a man, those are not bad odds. All you have to do is not be like those other guys. Talk to any woman who has been on AM, as I have, and have her show you her messages. Guys are so Fing dumb or just disgusting. Picture a bunch of really hungry married guys who think they are ordering Pssy like it's a pizza, most of who have zero game with woman and have tried to seduce one since they met their wives.

First off, almost all the messages you get on AM are bullshit. They all say, "CheatingMary may be looking for someone like you" or one of ten other messages they repeat. Don't bother looking at anything besides checking, who looked at my profile. Then write to her and her only. NEVER use priority mail, which is checked by default. You need to un-check it. And don't mention anything about sex when writing. You both know why you are there. Do reference something in her profile, ask her a few safe questions about herself, and volunteer something about yourself, but not your pitiful, sexless marriage.

Have a woman look over and help you edit your profile. Do not say, "not looking to make any changes.." blah blah blah. Do not mention your spouse at all or you lack of sex or anything else that sounds sad. Your goal is to simply get someone to write back to you and start a dialogue that could eventually lead to a first meeting in a safe place. I've written on this before in great length. I'll try to find it.

This is mostly good advice, and it applies to all dating websites, not just AM, because the same dynamic applies everywhere -- thousands of desperate guys spamming every single woman with cliched bullshit or creepy perverted suggestions.

[Anonymous]

I could have a no string attached affair with a guy. I like sex. Don’t want things to get messy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I could have a no string attached affair with a guy. I like sex. Don’t want things to get messy.

Where abouts are you? We should chat

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have had luck on Ashley Madison.

Still the best site for affairs. Even better after the big bust. Just have to know how to work it.

How do you work it? Tried it and it has been largely a bomb - advice welcome.

It's about 10 men for every woman on there, if you exclude hookers and bots. Which is fairly representative of real life, for every woman looking to cheat, 10 men are available which is depressing to think that most married men are DTF if the opportunity presents itself. If you are a woman, be prepared to be inundated

Accurate^^. But it’s not depressing for the reason you stated. Most of these men wouldn’t be on AM at all if not for their disinterested wives. The men would happily remain faithful if not for infrequent sex at home. So for men, AM is a marriage survival tactic. The depressing part of this is how few wives actually want to f$k their husbands. That is why every married man in DC is available to any woman who approaches.

Married man here, and while I partially agree that in general, men are about as faithful as their options, it isn't true any woman can seduce any man. Some men are rock star faithful although they are in the minority. Most are like me, somewhat sex starved and dreaming of an AP, but if some random woman walked up to me and propositioned I would assume I was on candid camera.

I have turned down propositions before, from unattractive women, but also because nothing is free. If you want to know my skepticism, google professor Bruce Hay at Harvard to see what happens when a married man is gullible enough to think an attractive woman is offering NSA sex.

Married man here and this thread is a hoot. I’ve had plenty of options to be unfaithful (successful businessman, a lot of travel, decent looking) but the option I have at home is still as good as I need. After 28 years she can still surprise me as she did a couple of weeks ago when she pulled out a set of handcuffs and said this might be fun. Like every other guy I fantasize about being with other women but I don’t need to be with another woman.