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Wait a second -- you and Mr. Bruni would have us believe that name-brand schools don't also have honors level programs and unique specializations? |
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What a lot of back and forth, and by several combative people! I was a C student and went to a VA public college - and not one of the top ones but the one that accepted me. I’m an executive now for a prominent Silicon Valley tech company and have several Ivy grads who work for me. The truth is, in my realm of work experience, they think they are very special. Because they have been told as much their whole lives. And yet, my neighbor is now a 3rd year at Harvard and she is one of the hardest working, smart-but-humble kids I know. It’s a mixed bag, like everywhere, but the danger of “special” is very real in my experience.
That said...If you know what you want to do with your life at a young age, and some kids do, going to the best colllege for that field is helpful, obviously. But most kids haven’t a clue who they are or what they want to do in life. And grit and determination can factor in as heavily or more so than fancy degrees and connections. Parents these days are so competitive. If your kid is like my neighbor, who was a passionate student from the beginning, then maybe she is meant for an Ivy. But if your kid isn’t like that...why would you push them to the brink? Just last week an 8th grader in northern VA committed suicide due to school grades pressure. These kids are only being taught that outcomes matter. They can’t handle, or enjoy, journeys. |
Agree 100 percent. This balances the two sides nicely, I think, and is true to my experience. |
The benefit of selective schools for URMs seems to be a huge asterisk that really weakens the study's conclusions, especially given that now they're nearly half of the under age 18 population in this country. Once you add in students whose parents did not graduate from college, that may take the percentage of students for whom selective schools making a difference to over 50 percent. What you seem to be portraying as the exception is actually swallowing the rule. Also, this study covered a cohort that attended undergrad 40 years ago. |
I'm not following your logic here. When the researchers analyzed white and Asian families with some means, they found that there was no difference in incomes for the schools they attended. Yet you run to "swallowing the rule" quickly due to the benefits of the URM/hooked kids. Can you connect the dots more fully? I'm not seeing the conflict as clearly as you. Yes, the latest results are based on 1993 graduates: "The new paper also looks at students who had been freshmen in 1989 and follows their earnings through the middle part of the last decade." What are your thoughts on how that affects the relevance of the study? |
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What kind of study is useful when the thesis claimed is true for only for half of the population?
That's like saying, studies show people benefit from eating more X or regularly doing Y exercise...unless you're female. |
Gotcha. Your point would be strengthened if there was an implausible basis for the difference. Say, they found that kids with blue eyes actually benefited more from going to selective colleges. Or kids from a specific sliver of family income (e.g. $100,000-$150,000). Or kids only from the Northeast. But the differences they found are for groups that often show up with different results than whites and Asians. Here's an example study showing that income differences hold for whites and Asians vs. blacks and Latinos after accounting for where they live: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/12/29/the-asian-american-advantage-that-is-actually-an-illusion/ Finally, you can turn your point around to this: How can we believe that selective schools matter that much when it only applies to half the population? |
I get what you're saying...at the same time some people are actually special ivy or not...and if Ivy, I'm worried will have to apologize or overcompensate for being from ivies or what not, which they shouldn't! Upper education in America has gotten so complicated. Millenials are generally annoying wherever they went. I'm more worried about the group think at any college and especially Ivies. for that reason alone I'd avoid them. Chart your own course young sirs and misses! |
How does citing this strengthen your point in any way? |
Tell you what, at this point your questions feel less like earnest inquiry and more like trolling to blast the Bruni book. I wish your kid(s) well in their pursuit of the most elite institutions. I too think the elite institutions are wonderful and would be happy if my kid went to one, assuming it's the right fit. However, I hope you recognize that your kid(s) will in all likelihood have a good life should they not get into either an elite private high school or college. I'm comfortable that my kid will. |
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So your post at 10:30 asked for clarification, but when I do the same, it's "trolling"?
And I agree with you that my kids will in all likelihood have a good life if they don't go to an elite private high school or college. But their margin for error will certainly be lower than if they did go to an elite private high school or college. |
Frank Bruno was an underrated fullback for UCLA back in the early eighties. Played with QB Tom Ramsey and for Coach Terry Donahue. |
Agree with this! Would he be writing for the New York Times and authoring a book if he were not himself a product of an elite education (CT boarding school, Morehead Scholar at UNC, Columbia for graduate school)? Although he makes some valid points, by definition, there is far more money to be made is marketing a book to the masses than the elite. |