OP, I think your best bet is to get more heavily involved in the kind of activities that attract you to these women. Join a hiking group. Start a neighborhood co-op garden. Take rock climbing classes. Go to indie music clubs and b-run theaters.
You'll either enjoy yourself and possibly eventually meet someone, or you'll decide it really isn't the life for you. Either way, you'll be better off than you are now, idealizing a group that you don't currently have a lot of common interests with.
I met my husband through classes at a hobby that we are both passionate about, and to this day (20 years later) it is a big part of our lifestyle.
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