I want boobs ( seriously)

[Anonymous]

Clothes look better on small breasted women. I am petite with 32DDs, and I wear a minimizer bra to make them look smaller. Because of my small frame, men's gazes drop to my chest. I try to dress modestly. Cleavage looks garish and cheap on me.

Keep in mind you won't have the same girlish figure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Clothes look better on small breasted women. I am petite with 32DDs, and I wear a minimizer bra to make them look smaller. Because of my small frame, men's gazes drop to my chest. I try to dress modestly. Cleavage looks garish and cheap on me.

Keep in mind you won't have the same girlish figure.

LOL.. to me, a B is not small, but then, I am an A.

I think the key is moderation. A B cup on a small frame would be ok. DDs would be too much.

[Anonymous]

I'm a tall girl with a broad back and have always loved my small breasts. Never had to wear a bra and they made me look slimmer. Now that I've nursed three children DH and I laugh at how they've changed. That being said, they look fine with a good push up and DH doesn't seem to mind one way or the other (he said he would support me if I had a boob job when I brought it up, but doesn't care either way). My marriage has matured and so has my chest; I don't plan to get a facelift anymore than I plan to augment my breasts. Learn to laugh and love the body you have...I'm sure there are plenty of women who couldn't have children and/or breastfeed that would gladly change places!

I'm not against boob jobs, but I think they can be a slippery slope. A little tuck here, Botox there, etc...I'm enjoying the body I'm earning through living life and think aging is beautiful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is OP. Look. after two kids and nursing,the ladies are showing the effects. I still feel sexy and we have a great sex life but... it's actually more aesthetic and how I look outside the bedroom. That's why my husband says its' ridiculous but I do think I'd feel more confident to fill out.

Get some "cutlets" and stuff your bra, if it's purely a matter of aesthetics outside the bedroom. https://smile.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=bra+gel+inserts

Google "botched boob job" etc. and really look at the possible downsides to this.

Consider whether or not you enjoy having sensitive boobs, as you may lose some nerve sensation.

Understand that you will likely need your boobs enhanced more than once; follow-up/revision surgeries years later are pretty common with this procedure.

You will have visible scars. Yes, current implants and techniques are worlds better than they were, but this is a surgical procedure, and anyone who ever sees your boobs in decent lighting will know. And yes, I'm into women, and have seen and played with a few pairs.

Understand that the aesthetics of your new boobs won't even fully kick in for a year, as there will be swelling, drainage, etc. you'll need to deal with.

Understand that your new boobs may be uneven, sit unnaturally, and look "weird" even if they're done correctly.

Consider how active you are, and are likely to be. Having implants may affect this.

Consider counseling for your self-esteem, because changing your body isn't necessarily going to change your mind.

Please note that none of these things have effall to do with your spouse's opinion. While I think it would be wise to have further conversation(s) with him to fully understand his position, I believe in body autonomy. They're your boobs, so it's your call.

But really think about what it could cost you. It's not just money.

OR they could turn out great. I'm bisexual and have never encountered a fake pair ad you describe above. I'very been shocked at how the scars are indetectable. Most educated women in this area go to great suegeons. Botched booby jobs happen when women go too big, are smokers, heavy drinkers, use surgeons with a poor track record or inadequate credentials, or a number of preventable reasons such as not listening to the advice of the doctor.

This is nowhat a common procedure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is OP. Look. after two kids and nursing,the ladies are showing the effects. I still feel sexy and we have a great sex life but... it's actually more aesthetic and how I look outside the bedroom. That's why my husband says its' ridiculous but I do think I'd feel more confident to fill out.

Get some "cutlets" and stuff your bra, if it's purely a matter of aesthetics outside the bedroom. https://smile.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=bra+gel+inserts

Google "botched boob job" etc. and really look at the possible downsides to this.

Consider whether or not you enjoy having sensitive boobs, as you may lose some nerve sensation.

Understand that you will likely need your boobs enhanced more than once; follow-up/revision surgeries years later are pretty common with this procedure.

You will have visible scars. Yes, current implants and techniques are worlds better than they were, but this is a surgical procedure, and anyone who ever sees your boobs in decent lighting will know. And yes, I'm into women, and have seen and played with a few pairs.

Understand that the aesthetics of your new boobs won't even fully kick in for a year, as there will be swelling, drainage, etc. you'll need to deal with.

Understand that your new boobs may be uneven, sit unnaturally, and look "weird" even if they're done correctly.

Consider how active you are, and are likely to be. Having implants may affect this.

Consider counseling for your self-esteem, because changing your body isn't necessarily going to change your mind.

Please note that none of these things have effall to do with your spouse's opinion. While I think it would be wise to have further conversation(s) with him to fully understand his position, I believe in body autonomy. They're your boobs, so it's your call.

But really think about what it could cost you. It's not just money.

OR they could turn out great. I'm bisexual and have never encountered a fake pair ad you describe above. I'very been shocked at how the scars are indetectable. Most educated women in this area go to great suegeons. Botched booby jobs happen when women go too big, are smokers, heavy drinkers, use surgeons with a poor track record or inadequate credentials, or a number of preventable reasons such as not listening to the advice of the doctor.

This is nowhat a common procedure.

Well, yes. Obviously they could turn out well. If that weren't a possibility, no one would even consider the procedure.

But problems happen, and not just to people who don't take care of themselves. Infection, rejection, scarring and misplacement/displacement are legitimate concerns for everyone.

I didn't say "Don't do it." I just strongly suggest that anyone considering a cosmetic procedure think long and hard about how they'd feel if the end result was worse, not better.

[Anonymous]

From my point of view, you need just to give a chance for men in DCUM to suck your boobs everyday and I am sure it will be bigger soon.

Don't forget to negotiate this with your husband and I will be the first lucky

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If anyone is reading who has not had a child, don't believe all the panic about breastfeeding changing your breasts. I nursed for a total of almost 5 years and they still look the same. I have friends and family members in the same situation. I don't even understand biologically what people are saying is happening to the breast tissue.

What size are they. I think the smaller ones suffer the most damage. I know my DWs did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think breast augmentation always looks fake. Some surgeons are better than others but there can be ripples, or they're too firm, or you can see the sac, especially when you look at the bottom or when she's on her back. Believe me, I'd love to have big girls too but I just think the chances of getting a good result are low.

However, I have considered stuffing my bra just to get the fun effect and see what it's like. They have these soft plastic fake boob overlay things now that I've thought of trying.

How many sets of fake breasts (small ones- not porn star ones) have you seen up close and personal? Are you a lesbian? I think that they have come so far in the past decade- mine look and feel real.

Nope. They only look real if you're already fat or a little chunky.

Implants can be spot on a fit woman a mile away, even the smaller ones. I don't think they look bad. I think they look nice, actually. However, they just have a specific...look...to them. And it is most certainly not "real".

Signed,
Daily gym goer

[Anonymous]

I am a petite woman too and an considering a surgery as well. Prior to two kids and 3 years of nursing, I had beautiful B, and now it's down to A and my nipples are sagging I'm only 31, 5'2", 104 lbs, and otherwise in a great shape. No one would think I have two kids and don't believe me when I say how old I am. I want my boobs back! All I basically want is just half a size, firmness that I had before, and perky nipples.

DH is supportive, but my boobs now don't bother him. For those who did do it, what did you pay? How long was the recovery? Is there any scarring?

[Anonymous]

I would not pay thousands and allow someone to cut my flesh to insert bags full of saline or silicone under my skin so I could better fit a fleeting standard of beauty.

[Anonymous]

As a guy I say don't do it. Fake boobs look funny, they feel funny. Stay natural.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I say do what makes you happy and this is coming from a person with implants. I get tired of people unfairly judging women who decide to have breast augmentation. After nursing 3 children my a cups were completely deflated and gross looking. I looked at augmentation as more of a corrective surgery. I chose a small size and no one even noticed I had them done. I think you'd be surprised how many women have implants. It's only the bad boob jobs that are really noticeable. Also, my husband who was against me having them done, absolutely loves the results and can't keep his hands off of them now.

+1. I always think of it the same way as if I had ears that stuck way out and I wanted them pinned, or some other body part improved. Sure, you can say that's vain and people should just live with these slight disfigurements, or you can just stop judging because you don't know what it feels like to be a flat chested woman in our society.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hey, OP. You can have some of mine. Seriously. I am also a petite woman and have always had big boobs. Think, far-into-the-alphabet-size cups.
I was hoping they would shrink after nursing two kids. No such luck. They only got bigger!!! I’ve considered breast reduction surgery, but I am a wimp when it comes to elective surgery.
I would gladly donate to anyone!!!
I guess we always want what we don’t have......

Yes thanks. But you are an ass regardless whether you have the big tits to match.

Big boobs. Small heart.

LOL thanks for the chuckle.. we are talking about boobs really.. mounds of fat and tissue secured to the chest wall via ligaments/muscle. Too funny... boobs. Lighten up!

[Anonymous]

I say if you are flat and you really want them then your husband should understand. this may be totally stupid advice but victoria secret makes bras with so much padding you can literally go up two sizes.

[Anonymous]

Good for you, OP. I too am "petite" (some would say skinny, but my DH and exes have used the term "hot"), and BFing decimated my already small chest. My DH doesn't like the idea either but when I explained that it feels like a deformity (and is treated as one by the rest of the world, otherwise why would there be such a thing as breast reconstruction surgery), and not a vanity/attention-getting thing, he got it and said he would support me.