I want boobs ( seriously)

[Anonymous]

My sympathies, OP.

I would go for surgery if I didn't have this fear of general anesthesia. So I will never have elective surgery.

I make do with push-up bras.

[Anonymous]

Then I think you should do your research and meet with some doctors. What are the costs, risks, imperfections, scars, and how long before you will need to replace?

Do you want it badly enough that you will risk a bad surgery and need a revision? You should watch a few episodes of Botched and if you still want boobs, do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Since your husband said no, then no. Personally, I wouldn't do unnecessary surgery that has the potential to permanently disfigure it kill me.

WTH? I don't have breast implants, but I can tell you this is not the right answer. It's her body, pp. The husband is not the boss of her body.

Why is your husband against it, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is OP. Look. after two kids and nursing,the ladies are showing the effects. I still feel sexy and we have a great sex life but... it's actually more aesthetic and how I look outside the bedroom. That's why my husband says its' ridiculous but I do think I'd feel more confident to fill out.

Get some "cutlets" and stuff your bra, if it's purely a matter of aesthetics outside the bedroom. https://smile.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=bra+gel+inserts

Google "botched boob job" etc. and really look at the possible downsides to this.

Consider whether or not you enjoy having sensitive boobs, as you may lose some nerve sensation.

Understand that you will likely need your boobs enhanced more than once; follow-up/revision surgeries years later are pretty common with this procedure.

You will have visible scars. Yes, current implants and techniques are worlds better than they were, but this is a surgical procedure, and anyone who ever sees your boobs in decent lighting will know. And yes, I'm into women, and have seen and played with a few pairs.

Understand that the aesthetics of your new boobs won't even fully kick in for a year, as there will be swelling, drainage, etc. you'll need to deal with.

Understand that your new boobs may be uneven, sit unnaturally, and look "weird" even if they're done correctly.

Consider how active you are, and are likely to be. Having implants may affect this.

Consider counseling for your self-esteem, because changing your body isn't necessarily going to change your mind.

Please note that none of these things have effall to do with your spouse's opinion. While I think it would be wise to have further conversation(s) with him to fully understand his position, I believe in body autonomy. They're your boobs, so it's your call.

But really think about what it could cost you. It's not just money.

[Anonymous]

PP- dos you have a botched boob job?

[Anonymous]

*did*

[Anonymous]

I will preface my answer with the fact that I am a single woman. I don't take a lot of s%7t from men. I'd rather be alone than deal with someone telling me what to do. So, I would listen to your husband's thoughts and feelings and then do exactly what you want to do. It is your body and if it's your money, enjoy! BTW- I am a 32DD. I have finally reached the point in life when my back, neck and shoulder problems cause me too much pain so I hope to get a reduction this year whether insurance will cover it or now. Don't go too big or your body won't like it. The bigger they are, the more they will sag. Then you'll end up wanting a lift further down the line. Just my 2 cents.

[Anonymous]

Why not go to a good lingerie store and get a water bra or something that will fill you out? I'd do that well before undergoing surgery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, this was DW and me 10 years ago, after the birth of our last (thirsty) child. She had them done (over my non-insistent objections) and she looks great. Nothing outrageous and no one (other than her doctors and I) know. They look perfectly normal. If they'd make you happy, go for it.

She didn't tell anyone?
most people tell their friends! Why is she embarrassed?
Weird.

[Anonymous]

Wouldn't you rather stuff your bra than get surgery?

[Anonymous]

Just know that implants do not last a lifetime. You will need to be opened up again in the future to fix them. You can look it up but they need to be replaced about every 10 to 20 years.

[Anonymous]

Stuffing your bra should be left to teenaged girls, PPs. Wtf?!

[Anonymous]

Thank you! I'll not stuffing my bra with Kleenex.

And yes I do wear sexy push-up bras but I want more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will preface my answer with the fact that I am a single woman. I don't take a lot of s%7t from men. I'd rather be alone than deal with someone telling me what to do. So, I would listen to your husband's thoughts and feelings and then do exactly what you want to do. It is your body and if it's your money, enjoy! BTW- I am a 32DD. I have finally reached the point in life when my back, neck and shoulder problems cause me too much pain so I hope to get a reduction this year whether insurance will cover it or now. Don't go too big or your body won't like it. The bigger they are, the more they will sag. Then you'll end up wanting a lift further down the line. Just my 2 cents.

OP is thinking about going to a B cup.
So why are yoin going on about your DDs?

[Anonymous]

Get a C cup at least! Otherwise why bother? Your husband might like the results. He "says no"...? Perhaps ask him what his objections are specifically and address each concern. Yes you should take his opinion and feelings into consideration but it's not like his lifestyle will be altered by your breasts!
Oh and one more thing - having big, nicely shaped tits is typically not considered a "disfigurement." It's considered attractive. Fake or real, nice tits are nice tits! Sorry for the crass language. Good luck.