+1 We live in the city to maximize convenience and family time - most of which we spend doing leisurely activities you can do almost anywhere. If we worked in the burbs we'd move to the burbs. |
Try living in Fairfax, Sterling or Gaithersburg and then get back to us. |
Not sure what "big yards" is supposed to do for them. And kids in the burbs don't "run around freely", at least none of my relatives' or in-laws' kids do. Hell, my nephew has to be driven to school by his mother. They leave early and sit in a line of cars waiting for the school staff to shepherd them into the building. If they don't arrive extra early, then they're at the end of the line, and have to wait longer. So they make sure they get to the school 40 minutes early and sit there idling. In line. It sounds like Hell on Earth. |
I live in Dc and my kids go to DCUM HRCS and i love it & make fun of my sister who lives in columbia MD. I babysat her kids for a week and was blown away by how ethnically diverse it was- kids from senegal to Kuala Lampur all playing together. DC is very WASP w/ a smattering of Catholics, AA and very few of anything else who actually attend public schools. I am not saying that all of the other things you are saying aren't true but don't knock fairfax- a lot of immigrants didn't come here so they can live in cramped condos w/ parquet floors and dirty streets and walk to open air markets. They moved to the US to drive SUVs to giant gleaming malls. I grew up in potomac, MD and our entire school was full of diplomats & people who worked at the world Bank. My cousins who lived close by and my best friends parents all living in bethesda/potomac were WB employees. There are also tons of physicians in that area who are mostly foreigners b/c theres a shortage of US trained doctors living in close in MD/VA suburbs as well. |
You are so ridiculous. The rich burbs, be it Chevy Chase or FCC, have their local libraries, they are very nice and teeming with kids, and the fact that some people need to drive to them doesn't negate their presence. Suburbs are full of theaters and parks and multi-ethnic restaurants, and cultural festivals, and whatever you need in DC is just 20 minutes away. Sorry, you come off as a crazy one. |
I am a World Bank economist, my husband is a political commentator, we are both foreign and live in Fairfax county. FYI, if you spoke their language, you would see that senior diplomats and military officers are remarkably dumb. Those who drive legislative battles in the Senate, as far as I can see, aren't the sharpest tools in the shed, either. |
Yes. While the DCUM crowd loves to sing praises to DC's ethnic diversity, the actual truth is that Washington is way less diverse, ethnically speaking, than Maryland and especially than Virginia. Both states are ahead of DC in the percentage of foreign-born, and speakers of languages other than English. The best ethnic restaurants, Saturday heritage programs, foreign-language preschools. temples and mosques, are all in the burbs. And excellent point about why immigrants move here. Middle-class immigrants, and even working-class ones don't care about the PC lines. They very unapologetically go to where the best schools are. They don't care about walkability and rubbing shoulders with anyone. |
As with most things, the answer is "it depends." My kid's DCPS classmates speak French, Amharic, and German at home--and that's just what I know of. No shortage of diversity here. I'm sure the same is true of some of the close-in burbs. |
This data is from the NAEP, not related to PARCC (common core test). |
PP here. Actually, I know the same is true of some parts of the 'burbs, since I lived there before buying in DC. It's not a competition, folks. |
| PP, ethnic diversity is not a matter of opinion, it's easily measurable. Virginia has twice as many speakers of foreign languages, percentage-wise, as DC. It also has many more foreign languages spoken by its people because Spanish occupies less space in this percentage than in DC. |
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There you go:
85% of District resident are English-speaking. 14% and change are speakers of other languages. Of that number, half are Spanish-speaking. https://apps.mla.org/cgi-shl/docstudio/docs.pl?map_data_results Let's take Fairfax county now. 64% are English-speaking. A whopping 35% are speakers of other languages. Spanish speakers account for only 13% of that number. The rest are a little bit of everything (that's the actual definition of diversity). https://apps.mla.org/cgi-shl/docstudio/docs.pl?map_data_results |
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I'm sure there's no shortage of education-minded suburban parents, including the highly educated (World Bank economists etc.), who are very involved in their kids' schools. I'm also certain that most suburban middle and high schools are miles ahead of my by-right options academically and, frankly, always will be. But I choose to live in the city with elementary school-age kids mainly because I like to walk or bike where I need, and want, to go - to friends' homes, my office, my kids' school, the National Mall, our church, restaurants, supermarkets, playgrounds, the bank etc. I like going as much as a week without driving my car. I also like to invest in real estate in an area where the upside potential is great - the value of my DC properties has more than doubled in under a decade. Also, I'm a history buff who really likes living surrounded by stunning Victorian architecture. But if school quality was my main concern, I'd live in VA.
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Let me tell you what a "big yard" does for my family. Last night we spent about 1 1/2 hours in our big yard after dinner. My 1 year old wandered around, playing with stones and pebbles and a shovel and bucket, watering the plants, riding his little tricycle, blowing bubbles, watching birds, etc. My 3 year old helped her dad plant a new grape plant, checked to see if her blueberries were still green, played with her brother with the stones, watched a colony of ants carry items to their home...yep nothing particularly valuable about that! Guess we should have taken them to the museum instead. We live pretty far out and can walk to all grade levels of school, so there won't be any idling in a car here. Look, I've lived in both environments and have enjoyed both. These "_______ is better" arguments are so silly. |
Although not a competition, my neighborhood in DC is very international (lots of diplomats, many kids going to our dcps es are bilingual if not trilingual), so I think that pp is overgeneralizing for all of DC neighborhoods. But on a different note, I am sure that the greater DC metro area is incredibly diverse in general, especially when compared to most other parts of the country. |