+100. PP is by no means an "urban pioneer" and the fact that she thinks so is revolting. |
I think it went quite well. You lectured me forever about your own brilliance, and it obviously gave you some self-affirming feels that were desperately needed. |
But it is absolutely true. Compare DC to somewhere like Detroit, or any other inner city. In DC students are 13% white and 76% FARMS (old stat but still true). That is why the rising tide cannot lift all boats - because in the majority of public and charter schools, there are NO white kids. Kids at Deal and Wilson are tracked, however. The whites fly above and students of color have a harder time getting into honors classes. Savvy white DC parents KNOW, and it is an absolute fact, that their kids have a better chance of getting into a great college from Wilson than from private school. It adds to the colleges public school quota, the inner city quota, all without costing them a dime because the kids are well prepared - not by Wilson (although the honors classes are segregated anyone can take an AP class) but by their parents. Agree about the problem with really poor kids who cannot control their tempers in Ward 3 ES's. That is why ours had two teachers - one to pull the OOB AA kids out when they flipped out (paid for by parents), and one to educate those who remained. White guilt is incredible at these schools - they tolerate behavior that from a white child with a high SES and educated parents would warrant serious consequences and conferences with the principal and school psychologist. For example, a child humming during a test - the response was to kick out anyone who was bothered by it, not to tell the child to stop humming. All that being said, their are the exceptions - OOB poor kids who thrive, and of course higher SES AA kids who fit right in. But the folks who live in the burbs just do not want to deal with any non-white kids (unless they are Asian) whatsoever. I would put our local DC Ward 3 ES up against the burbs any day. And then I would put up BASIS (which has killed every standardized test without excluding AA students at all) and Latin (only in English) up against burb MS and HS. Rankings aren't everything (and BASIS is too young to be ranked), but it has made its mark, and I think convinced many who would otherwise go private to stay in DCPCS - at least for MS. Our admissions to Walls and private schools for HS are phenomenal. However, if you want your child to be a National Merit Scholar, you should move to West Virginia. DC and MD have had the highest cut offs per "state" for so many years that it really is ten times harder to get that kind of award in DC (you are competing against private schools as well). In sum, send your white kids to Deal/Wilson or BASIS and they will have an edge over the private school students here. If you want national recognition, you should probably move to West Virginia.... |
What kind of sexist drivel is this? No dog in this fight but this is just stupid. Fight because you disagree with their premise. This is just childish, stupid, and sexist. |
| It's not sexist. Replace husband with wife everywhere. Would you honestly want to come home to that man? God no. You let him knock you up, and that was the mistake, but to hear that sanctimonious bullsh!t every damn day as a result is just cruel. Nobody would blame you for shacking up with the male intern. That's the point. |
I don't even know where to start with you. Gross. |
I think it's good you think you're so very smart. Positive affirmation is one of the keystones of any good self-actualizing practice. |
+1. Simply stupid. |
Now, now. Don't call her stupid. She went to an ivy league school. So many of us are ill-educated by comparison. I am sure that her diatribe about husband's working late and a woman only having themselves to blame was actually just a Flaubertian commentary on the human condition in nineteenth century France... and the rise of the bourgeoisie and the parallel to now. |
| (sorry typing on phone: herself to blame and husband's) |
| Phone did it again. Bah. I do not care. I do not care if the ivy league or has a husband, two husbands, or was speaking in general about the rights of all husbands, which is a word my phone likes to type as husband's. |