Suicides associated with the AM hack

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

Quick, Chicken Little, grab your teflon umbrella! The sky is falling!

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Anonymous wrote:Should have thought about that before signing up for the site. (my husband was on the site, I did not know until the list. Yes, he is a cheater) I have absolutely NO sympathy for the people on that site.

Not an issue that you know about your husband but is there a need for it to be publicized to the whole world?

She probably wouldn't have known her husband was a cheater if not for the hack.

This is just awful and sickening. When this whole AM thing first broke, my first reaction was - "serves the cheaters right". But this goes way beyond that sentiment now! This is destroying the lives of so many families - especially children. I don't know what the solution is or the right thing to think is anymore.

Maybe it limited damage.

Maybe before the spouse got an STD and infected his spouse.

Maybe before he knocked a chick up who claimed to be on the Pill--and avoiding paternity and a bastard 1/2 sibling for the kids.

Maybe before spouse was robbed or found dead in the Donovan Hotel.

Maybe the spouse finally has enough reason to leave a narcissistic, macho ahole.

Maybe before a crazy Fatal Attraction chick was met and started stalking his family.

I don't know. I think opening the blinds and seeing reality is for the best.

Seeing reality, yes. But not having your parents' sins known by everyone.

Parent. Singular.

Should have thought of the family and not gone on a website advertising 'life is short, have an affair'. Zero sympathy.

Zero sympathy for their kids? Are you a psycho?

For the wife and kids- yes.

The dude can lie in the mess he created. Lying is never the right route. At its core- cheating is lying. Be a man and end things before you get to the point you'll cheat. It's pathetic.

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

Quick, Chicken Little, grab your teflon umbrella! The sky is falling!

Uh, not sure you get what's going on in this thread. There are people suggesting folks who make the mistake of having an affair should maybe kill themselves. Is that your position?

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

Quick, Chicken Little, grab your teflon umbrella! The sky is falling!

Uh, not sure you get what's going on in this thread. There are people suggesting folks who make the mistake of having an affair should maybe kill themselves. Is that your position?

My position is that the PP was over the top. Hence the chicken little reference.

If my position was supportive of people choosing to kill themselves after choosing to have an affair, then I would have said so.

Hope that clears up your apparent confusion.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

Quick, Chicken Little, grab your teflon umbrella! The sky is falling!

Uh, not sure you get what's going on in this thread. There are people suggesting folks who make the mistake of having an affair should maybe kill themselves. Is that your position?

My position is that the PP was over the top. Hence the chicken little reference.

If my position was supportive of people choosing to kill themselves after choosing to have an affair, then I would have said so.

Hope that clears up your apparent confusion.

It didn't. You just wanted to make a chicken little joke? Was that the main thing? Or did you have any other meaningful point?

[Anonymous]

Men are as faithful as their options.

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

Quick, Chicken Little, grab your teflon umbrella! The sky is falling!

Uh, not sure you get what's going on in this thread. There are people suggesting folks who make the mistake of having an affair should maybe kill themselves. Is that your position?

My position is that the PP was over the top. Hence the chicken little reference.

If my position was supportive of people choosing to kill themselves after choosing to have an affair, then I would have said so.

Hope that clears up your apparent confusion.

It didn't. You just wanted to make a chicken little joke? Was that the main thing? Or did you have any other meaningful point?

NP-since when did posts on DCUM all have to be meaningful? Seriously are you the PP's editor?

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It's consistent. Cheating and suicide are both selfish acts. No one should be surprised. I feel bad for the kids - whether or not the cheater commits suicide, I can't see how any spouse could forgive and forget knowing the whole world is aware. I hear that family lawyers are saying it's like Christmas in July.
But I am glad that AM is going down.

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Anonymous wrote:Look, I feel bad that if he committed suicide, but if something were going to make me feel so guilty that I would take my own life if others found out, I would not do it in the first place.

As long as I still got the life insurance $--can't say I'd care.

Suicide voids most life insurance policies.

Only for a certain time, like up to two years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

+1. no excuse for the cheaters, but its sad and pathetic how people are taking enjoyment in all of this.

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

+1. no excuse for the cheaters, but its sad and pathetic how people are taking enjoyment in all of this.

Agreed.

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Anonymous wrote:This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!

+1. no excuse for the cheaters, but its sad and pathetic how people are taking enjoyment in all of this.

Agreed.

Have either of you checked the list for your spouse?
I felt the same.
Then I checked this list.
Found his name.

37M people...That's a lot.
A lot of people are hurting from this.

[Anonymous]

I think its strange how everyone here is pointing to the suicides as if they are the pubilc's fault for eating this up. The hackers released the data. And frankly, while I understand suicide is tricky business, to me it feels extremely selfish and cruel to the cheated upon spouse to cheat and then kill yourself. You basically put them in a situation where they have to feel guilty about you dying after you cheated. While I think its a tragedy, I don't know how much compassion I can muster for this.

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This is terrible. This witch hunt is shameless, what people do withing the walls of their homes is their business. What have we become as a society!


Quick, Chicken Little, grab your teflon umbrella! The sky is falling!

I can see why someone would cheat on you. You are sick. Someone killed themselves b/c people like you feel so hurt someone cheated on you. You need a lot of self reflection.

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Anonymous wrote:Should have thought about that before signing up for the site. (my husband was on the site, I did not know until the list. Yes, he is a cheater) I have absolutely NO sympathy for the people on that site.

Not an issue that you know about your husband but is there a need for it to be publicized to the whole world?

She probably wouldn't have known her husband was a cheater if not for the hack.

seems a lot were in sexless Marriages for years...personally can't blame them! Maybe the spouse shares some of the blame!
And who did they cheat with??? Lotsa women also in sexless or abusive marriages who stay for the kids....and now nosy puritanical busybodies, some who've never had a decent sex life, are passing judgement???