| OP you need to read "he's just not that into you".. Im sure you both had a good time on the first date but I really hope you don;t have high expectations. He would have stayed the night. Seirously, in the book, the author says a guy could be flying the space shuttle in the morning but he is staying the night if he is in to you. Fuck around as much as you want but when you are ready to get serious about dating stop with the first date sex. Men do like to chase. Yes I am a feminist but hell this is basic biology. And yes I am happily married and didn't have sex until the 7th date. He really showed me how much he was willing to put into it. |
Op here sorry I didn't update. He did call me and we saw each other again a day after. Seems pretty into me
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| Yay! Do you like him? |
It's funny I think he likes me more... I am just going to see how it goes. Can't believe this thread generated so much talk. I wonder how old all the commenters are. |
he is really "into" you... |
Guy here. I wouldnt think less of a woman for having sex on a first date. I would think less of someone for playing bullshit games on the basis of spme Victorian approach to women though. Not to say that you should have sex on the first date, but that you should do whatever feels right to you. |
LOL |
It sounds like they're 60-100 years old. |
| I slept with my now wife on our first date, though I had know her for a while. Now, I have never had a one night stand so at some level I was like, was she like this with every guy? But we talked about it -- I still bring up our first date once in a while as a defining moment and its really no big deal. We got serious fast and nine years later, still have sex 4 or 5 times a week so hey, life could be worse. |
not the age, it's the value system. |
You do realize that anyone aged 45-60 lived during the most promiscuous time in history probably since the fall of the Roman Empire. We wrote the book one night stands. There was no AIDS or herpes. Just the pill and bad hairstyles. We did it all. And we're just telling you some hard truths. But carry on inventing the wheel. |
Old people want to think they did it all. Who was your Mark Zuckerberg? Fuck off. |
The phrase value system makes me want to puke. |
go ahead |
You make your parents proud!!
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