Don't act like you're insecure and jealous, and then nobody will accuse you of it. Case in point, don't make up a fake job. Duh. |
PP here. I am not the poster you think I am. I'm NP. Duh. Predictable. |
You sure write like that jackass. And you sure took some generic advice (about not behaving like you're insecure and jealous) personally.... |
'Elitist'? Oh you mean those with prestigious credentials? Name calling for no other reason than they have something you do not=jealous. |
This is not true in my experience. My H works in finance and does a small amount of hiring into the group he manages. He is looking for particular qualities (genuine interest in picking stocks, a certain amount of hunger, etc.) and has passed over more than a few ivy grads in the process. |
| ^ Also in finance, once you get passed a certain point, it's all a numbers game. How successful you are = how much money you make on your picks or trades. No one cares where you went to school after you're 5 years out. If you can't pull in the numbers they're looking for, you're out. |
Ummm...okay, but I'm certain those ivy grads are getting interviews and end up doing just fine. You have your 2nd hand experience based on what your husband may have told you and I have mine based on what I've actually seen time and time again. |
This is so old. Bottom line is that an ivy degree is more impressive and suggests a higher level of intellect. And those with ivy degrees fare better than those without. Sorry but true. |
I'm just saying it's not always going to be a slam dunk just because you went to a "better" school. Other things matter too. |
Maybe they tend to but you can't argue with the fact that many, many people without ivy credentials do very well financially. After a certain point, it doesn't matter. |
Agree! |
NP here. I went to a top Ivy business school. For getting that first job on Wall Street, an Ivy degree is pretty much golden. This is a fact. However, I agree with the posters who say that 10 years out, all that matters is whether you can pick the stocks or close the deal. Your husband may be looking at Ivy grads who are 10 years out of school with so-so track records. Or at Ivy grads with literature degrees who suddenly realized they need to do something practical. Then again, your husbands' group may be very different from a typical Wall Street operation in terms of the personnel it needs (not that that's a bad thing). |
| College career directors do not hire for "high powered jobs" DUH! |
ZING! |
Here we have the reasonable voice of an Ivy grad who has been successful and puts their educational credential in perspective. Contrast, the frustrated underachiever stuck in a dead end "college career director" position finding "high powered" jobs for college grads. Some are so pathetic they deserve our pity, not our scorn. Happy Mother's Day! |