Wait, I thought you started out by blaming those people for being foolish for not having emergency funds? |
I am not the OP of this thread. |
OP, you've repeated your question several times now. They are your friends. Presumably you know them fairly well. (You claim to, anyway, since you're confident in your knowledge of their finances.) Why do you think they spend all their money and fail to save adequately? You must have some theory about their behavior. Drop the feigned bemusement already and tell us what you actually think. |
Why is your compassion so limited? Is there not enough for both the struggling, deserving person as well as someone with an emergency fund who fears spending it down and getting caught with emergent expenses before they've had time to replenish it? You can feel especially bad for the former and still have some empathy for the latter. |
| Eh, they're probably full of shit. Whinny Millenials crying over it just for sympathy. Their bank accounts are probably just fine. |
That's fine. I have a fiancé. I don't need or want to date you. |
You have no compassion for people who have to hand over hundreds or thousands of dollars for no good reason? Middle-class government workers pay taxes, purchase goods and services, save for their own retirements, hire babysitters and housekeepers, and contribute to the social safety net that protects those who are hungry. Emergency funds are not trust funds. |
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I am a GS-12 employees my husband works for the city government. We are not rich by any means, yet we have at least four months of living expenses saved so I think we will be fine.
Too many Americans choose to live above their means. If one or two weeks is going to kill you, then yes you need to reevaluate your spending. |
Op here. I did not write anything in this thread. |
Don't go out with them. As another pp said, find a group of frugal friends and have a potluck and drink tap water while you sit around telling stories about your spendthrift colleagues and family members. |
Give it a rest drama queen. You are an ungrateful brat. You think that all hungry people qualify for assistance? Get a clue moron. Working class people pay taxes too. So do middle class people that don't make six figures a year. In fact, everyone pays taxes of some sort. What is your point other than you are an entitled moron ? Get some real problems besides that pea brain of yours. That is the only reason I feel bad for you. It must be hard to get through life being so stupid. |
We have an emergency fund, but I dislike finding myself in a political emergency. |
I love this! Politics is not an emergency to me. |
What on Earth did I say that makes me sound entitled? I never said that working class people don't pay taxes. I'm not a federal employee, but I sure as hell have sympathy for people who have to take a forced furlough when they'd rather be working. You sound like a crazy person. |
| I only make 70k and have a one year emergency savings. I could never relax if I had nothing or very little. It would give me so much anxiety to live paycheck to paycheck! I have no idea what people spend their money on. |