Maybe you are covering for yourself or your friends who engage in such scams. |
If 1/3 of the kids should not be there, 1/3 of the jobs should be cut. |
Switch to another podcast? |
Or maybe it’s not as big a deal as people whose job it is to stir up clicks make it out to be. That would be a shocker, wouldn’t it? My kid is dyslexic and he gets extra time on tests in high school. I doubt he wants to continue it in college though. But, he’s been in special ed since 2nd grade. In all those years, I don’t think I’ve run across a kid who’s faking it for extra time or has a fake diagnosis. I’m sure some exist somewhere but I haven’t seen them. |
This is a damaging perspective. I feel bad for kid. A parent so cold and arrogant that they over look their kids mental health and harm their ability to learn. |
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I think there are a lot of things that people seek support for as disabilities in college but not in the real world. My kid has severe, but well controlled asthma. Since avoiding environmental triggers is part of that control, he will submit disability paperwork to ensure he is placed in a dorm room with AC or allowed to install a window unit, and not asked to share a room or suite with an emotional support cat.
As an adult he will look for an apartment with AC and not choose to get a cat. No disability paperwork will be involved. |
Is your kid headed to an elite school? The more elite the school, the more the abuse. It’s a % of abuse at elite schools that is higher. But those saying 20% at elite schools are not borderline or questionable, to say the least, do not know this population. |
It depends. Employers are not required to change essential duties of a position or to reduce production standards. So if the production standard is to review 8 files per day, they don’t need to relax that. Or if an essential duty is being able to write an article before print deadline or whatever, then they don’t need to give extra time. But if there is an arbitrary deadline that is not essential to the duties of the position then they may need to give more time. It’s a very fact dependent inquiry and requires an interactive process to make that determination. |
So, all this talk and hand ringing for an iffy percentage in a scant handful of schools? That’s not worth the ink spilled. Plus there is a lot of conflating of a disability and any actual academic benefit. I don’t think a peanut allergy declaration is helping anyone in college. |
this Duke number can't be right. but Stanford - wow. |
| Have close friend in Stanford admin--they're aware that kids/parents overreport disabilities to receive accommodations for housing. Location, amenities, age--big variety in the housing stock. |
I think people who need emotional support animals should live off-campus. And not get priority for singles. That's a hotbutton issue for me. The ESA declarations are pretty fraudulent. Dog people particularly seem okay with lying so they can take dogs wherever. |
FWIW, I have a kid with dyslexia and dysgraphia. Getting nites beforehand is unheard of as far as I can tell, as is getting notes afterward. She has a recommendation for notes from a neuropsych and has NEVER been able to get notes (one HS and 2 colleges). She gets prof slides (which most kids do or the take photos) and has been offered an AI program (that is a product in the open market). Notetakers are not a thing anymore apparently. |
Parent of a kid with LDs here and I totally agree with you. The parent risks sever psychological damage and for sure a lack of confidence. Her kid just thinks she is stupid when she has a disability. My kid was not diagnosed until 4th grade and it was such a relief to her to know she was not stupid but her brain processes differently. As a college student she has been very successful but that never would have happened if we had let her tough it out. |
+1 |