Love is Blind season 9

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Anonymous wrote:Patrick is such a jerk. “I had to end a connection” no Anna left without telling you bye. “Anna is my number one” 30 seconds later “Kacie is my number one”. They have no chemistry. He has no personality.

Agree.
And Kacie is clearly there for fame but spiraled when she saw him and had zero chemistry. When she was breaking the news to him about not going to Baja, I almost felt bad for her while watching her go overboard on being physically all up on him while unsuccessfully trying to break up with him. You could tell she was just panicked that “they” were going to try to make her look shallow for dumping him because of his looks. Which she totally was—but she knows that would be a terrible look. So she way overcompensated.
Honestly, if Patrick hadn’t been such a desperate poser himself, the producers might have succeeded in villainizing Kacie and getting me to feel badly for him. But truthfully it was very clear that he was just in it for fun and fame too or he would have just left after Annie ghosted him.

Agree with everything except the bolded. He applied to be on the show and wasn't recruited (very rare for the men). I think he genuinely wanted a wife who didn't judge him for being an ugly asian because he was judged his whole life for that.

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Anonymous wrote:Wondering if I should start this season? I heard it's the worst one so far. Thoughts?

Depends on what you think makes LIB good versus bad. Do you like the drama? Do you want to see couples fall in love and live happily ever after? Garrett and Taylor were in love and still married but IMO it was a boring storyline and not what makes the show good. I like the drama like Chelsea (I look like Megan Fox). It makes the forums more fun.

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Anonymous wrote:Not one of those dudes is infatuated, much less in love. No weddings in this group.

I think Ali and Anton will wed, and a few others will say Yes but the partner will say No.

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Anonymous wrote:Not one of those dudes is infatuated, much less in love. No weddings in this group.

I think Ali and Anton will wed, and a few others will say Yes but the partner will say No.

He does not seem that into her (and vice versa), but who knows with the edit I guess.

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Watching Jordan and Madison bicker is getting on my last nerve. She's such a drama queen, and he is not into her.

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Anonymous wrote:Edmond shouldnt have been casted

Cast not casted.

Edmond is a mess but she completely missed his point about how he was receiving her insistence that he wait for sex. She made it sound like she has one night stands with guys she doesn’t care about but when the relationship matters, then “I make guys wait”…
And he was trying to express to her that this sends a message that nice guys finish last. And it is unrealistic of her to expect that he would view her practice of sleeping with guys who dont matter while “making” her future husband wait until the wedding night to experience this with her as anything OTHER than a punishment for being a good guy.

Most reasonable people understand the difference between a one-night stand with no feelings versus waiting while building an actual emotional connection. The fact that he doesn't speaks volumes about his maturity. We're talking three weeks here.

As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

But his makes sense in its own way. Especially since he, and everyone else knows he is the only one who is being asked to wait.

(There is something off about their dynamic. Like she is maternal towards him, and providing the love he missed growing up.)

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Anonymous wrote:Watching Jordan and Madison bicker is getting on my last nerve. She's such a drama queen, and he is not into her.

Please get the couples straight. It's Jordan/Megan Sparkle. Madison/Joe.

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Anonymous wrote:Watching Jordan and Madison bicker is getting on my last nerve. She's such a drama queen, and he is not into her.

Please get the couples straight. It's Jordan/Megan Sparkle. Madison/Joe.

Oh who cares. They're all annoying.

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Anonymous wrote:Edmond shouldnt have been casted

Cast not casted.

Edmond is a mess but she completely missed his point about how he was receiving her insistence that he wait for sex. She made it sound like she has one night stands with guys she doesn’t care about but when the relationship matters, then “I make guys wait”…
And he was trying to express to her that this sends a message that nice guys finish last. And it is unrealistic of her to expect that he would view her practice of sleeping with guys who dont matter while “making” her future husband wait until the wedding night to experience this with her as anything OTHER than a punishment for being a good guy.

Most reasonable people understand the difference between a one-night stand with no feelings versus waiting while building an actual emotional connection. The fact that he doesn't speaks volumes about his maturity. We're talking three weeks here.

As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

But his makes sense in its own way. Especially since he, and everyone else knows he is the only one who is being asked to wait.

(There is something off about their dynamic. Like she is maternal towards him, and providing the love he missed growing up.)

And that's the bigger issue. He is the only one not having sex and THAT'S why he doesn't like it. Not because he has to know what he's getting into before marriage. If none of the other couples were having sex in Baja, then he wouldn't care.

[Anonymous]

Nick is way too grown up and perfectionistic for Annie. Unlike most of the men, he actually has his ish together. He needs a naturally pretty girl who loves the mountains the way he does. They're just too different.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Edmond shouldnt have been casted

Cast not casted.

Edmond is a mess but she completely missed his point about how he was receiving her insistence that he wait for sex. She made it sound like she has one night stands with guys she doesn’t care about but when the relationship matters, then “I make guys wait”…
And he was trying to express to her that this sends a message that nice guys finish last. And it is unrealistic of her to expect that he would view her practice of sleeping with guys who dont matter while “making” her future husband wait until the wedding night to experience this with her as anything OTHER than a punishment for being a good guy.

Most reasonable people understand the difference between a one-night stand with no feelings versus waiting while building an actual emotional connection. The fact that he doesn't speaks volumes about his maturity. We're talking three weeks here.

Agree that was the main issue. It does speak to his immaturity and insecurity.
As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

But his makes sense in its own way. Especially since he, and everyone else knows he is the only one who is being asked to wait.

(There is something off about their dynamic. Like she is maternal towards him, and providing the love he missed growing up.)

And that's the bigger issue. He is the only one not having sex and THAT'S why he doesn't like it. Not because he has to know what he's getting into before marriage. If none of the other couples were having sex in Baja, then he wouldn't care.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Edmond shouldnt have been casted

Cast not casted.

Edmond is a mess but she completely missed his point about how he was receiving her insistence that he wait for sex. She made it sound like she has one night stands with guys she doesn’t care about but when the relationship matters, then “I make guys wait”…
And he was trying to express to her that this sends a message that nice guys finish last. And it is unrealistic of her to expect that he would view her practice of sleeping with guys who dont matter while “making” her future husband wait until the wedding night to experience this with her as anything OTHER than a punishment for being a good guy.

Most reasonable people understand the difference between a one-night stand with no feelings versus waiting while building an actual emotional connection. The fact that he doesn't speaks volumes about his maturity. We're talking three weeks here.

As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

But his makes sense in its own way. Especially since he, and everyone else knows he is the only one who is being asked to wait.

(There is something off about their dynamic. Like she is maternal towards him, and providing the love he missed growing up.)

And that's the bigger issue. He is the only one not having sex and THAT'S why he doesn't like it. Not because he has to know what he's getting into before marriage. If none of the other couples were having sex in Baja, then he wouldn't care.

Agree that was the main issue. It does speak to his immaturity and insecurity.
As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Watching Jordan and Madison bicker is getting on my last nerve. She's such a drama queen, and he is not into her.

Joe has grown on me. Not sold on her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Edmond shouldnt have been casted

Cast not casted.

Edmond is a mess but she completely missed his point about how he was receiving her insistence that he wait for sex. She made it sound like she has one night stands with guys she doesn’t care about but when the relationship matters, then “I make guys wait”…
And he was trying to express to her that this sends a message that nice guys finish last. And it is unrealistic of her to expect that he would view her practice of sleeping with guys who dont matter while “making” her future husband wait until the wedding night to experience this with her as anything OTHER than a punishment for being a good guy.

Most reasonable people understand the difference between a one-night stand with no feelings versus waiting while building an actual emotional connection. The fact that he doesn't speaks volumes about his maturity. We're talking three weeks here.

As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

But his makes sense in its own way. Especially since he, and everyone else knows he is the only one who is being asked to wait.

(There is something off about their dynamic. Like she is maternal towards him, and providing the love he missed growing up.)

And that's the bigger issue. He is the only one not having sex and THAT'S why he doesn't like it. Not because he has to know what he's getting into before marriage. If none of the other couples were having sex in Baja, then he wouldn't care.

Well, men are competitive with each other, and he is probably not the most confident among them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Edmond shouldnt have been casted

Cast not casted.

Edmond is a mess but she completely missed his point about how he was receiving her insistence that he wait for sex. She made it sound like she has one night stands with guys she doesn’t care about but when the relationship matters, then “I make guys wait”…
And he was trying to express to her that this sends a message that nice guys finish last. And it is unrealistic of her to expect that he would view her practice of sleeping with guys who dont matter while “making” her future husband wait until the wedding night to experience this with her as anything OTHER than a punishment for being a good guy.

Most reasonable people understand the difference between a one-night stand with no feelings versus waiting while building an actual emotional connection. The fact that he doesn't speaks volumes about his maturity. We're talking three weeks here.

As a woman, I understand her “logic.”

But his makes sense in its own way. Especially since he, and everyone else knows he is the only one who is being asked to wait.

(There is something off about their dynamic. Like she is maternal towards him, and providing the love he missed growing up.)

And that's the bigger issue. He is the only one not having sex and THAT'S why he doesn't like it. Not because he has to know what he's getting into before marriage. If none of the other couples were having sex in Baja, then he wouldn't care.

Well, men are competitive with each other, and he is probably not the most confident among them.

Yeah, he's had a hard life and it shows. It will take time and patience for him to become the man he's capable of being. KB is in the right line of work to support him but it's a lot to ask of a partner.