What do you do with the next 40-50 years? |
we retired in our mid 50s. Last kid almost out of college (college funded). we plan to travel extensively for the next 5-10 years and then just enjoy life We have hobbies and activities to do, friends to hang out with and just relaxing after years of 8-8 stress it's nice |
My dad retired my dad retired at 60 - full pension NW around 5M. He waited till 70 to take SS. Worse decision I have ever seen up close. He has wasted the last 15 years watching tv and getting into fights with his brothers. Most of his friends didn’t retire until a few years ago. He says it was like getting to the playground hours before any one else shows up.
My takeaway- you need to work until you definitely have something better to do. |
That is on you, the retiree to figure out. It shouldnt' be that difficult to "find something to do"---many many places need volunteers, most ES love the grandparent types coming to read/assist in the classroom several days per week if you cannot figure out anything else |
That’s on your dad. His choice to laze his retirement away. I have a list of hobbies I want to try that’s a mile long. I don’t think I’ll be bored for a very, very long time. And by then I probably won’t be capable of enjoying some of the things I want to do. |
My takeaway is he worked hard and deserved his retirement. He can do whatever he wants to make himself happy. He earned it. |
So your dad isn’t smart. Doesn’t mean the rest of us aren’t. |
Not the PP but thanks to them for correcting so o didn’t have to. It’s actually helpful to know what dummies are on this site lest we take their advice. |
You can, but try to get your money into Roth IRA going forward. Also, keep working part time to make the $8k so you can contribute to Roth. Then go and travel several months. The pension, the SS, and the 401k will be taxed possibly more than necessary. Read the book Power of Zero and see it you can do something about it before RMD. 401k is taxed as ordinary income which is much higher than your brokerage account. |
Very true. However, most people need "something to do" when they retire. It can be extensively traveling. It can be volunteering, it can be hobbies. But you cannot just sit at home all day---you need "something to do". |
Similar situation with my Dad. One thing helped is that him and Mom hadn’t travelled a lot so got to do that. We have travelled extensively with our children and are able to do that with the leave we get from our jobs. My takeaway from the discussions here is that people that REALLY hate their jobs want to retire desperately and can’t understand people that really enjoy theirs. To the extent, they think they are crazy to want to keep working. |
I took a break at 40 to be a SAHM. My DH declared it "Early retirement". I guess that's what it is. I am 60 now. Happily married. Happy family life. |
So nice |
Retired at 55. NW 8.1M |
My dad retired from full time at around 62 but wanted to, for five years, make enough money part time to cover their overhead. When my mother, who paid all the bills, told him what it was he said he needed to go back to work full time! He didn’t but he worked part time until age 70 but he had plenty of time to enjoy retirement. They have a very high net worth and he didn’t need to work at all but he’s very goal oriented and needed a plan to keep from getting bored. |