Husband checks out 20 yr olds

[Anonymous]

I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.

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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.

We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures

[Anonymous]

Same op same. It's so depressing.

[Anonymous]

First it was violence was violence, then it was speech is violence, now it is looking is violence.

Get a grip.

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Anonymous wrote:First it was violence was violence, then it was speech is violence, now it is looking is violence.

Get a grip.

X2. At least you know he’s not gay.

[Anonymous]

Once (and only once) many years ago, I caught my husband ogling a pack of college-age women at a hotel pool. I guess he thought he was being subtle (he had sunglasses on) but it was totally obvious. I didn’t make a thing of it in the moment but later that day I told him I saw it and it was quite obvious, and he was embarrassed and hasn’t done it since. I’m not stupid - I’m sure he still notices attractive young women (like I also notice attractive people of all genders) but at least he’s discreet.

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Typical sexist DCUM. Roles reversed, everyone would be applauding the cougar for checking out young hot men. It’s apparently only creepy when it’s a guy doing it. The woman would be met with glee and comments like “ take him home”. Prove me wrong but you can’t. A lot of misandrists throwing around sexism on this site but they get a pass because they’re a woman.

- Signed a woman who hates women like this.

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Anonymous wrote:Like Pavlov's dog, the only way to get through to a man is to make him suffer every time he does something you dont like. Meaning bring it up and start a fight about it directly after. Storm off and give him the silent dream. Shout at him loudly for being a creep so he's embarrassed in public. Bring it up later that night and mention how hurt you were by it. Rinse and repeat until he realizes checking this women out is more trouble than it's worth, and the little sick thrill he gets from checking out young women who would never give him the time of day in the first place is not worth ruining his day/event. He'll learn quick, trust me.

Men will pay for sex and they will give him the time of day. Men are very transactional. Women will say gross eww etc but for the man to satisfy his urge he will do the transaction and move on like nothing happened. He won't need extensive therapy and wine nights.

Unless OP lives in the red light district in Amsterdam, these women are NOT prostitutes and not for sale. They'd likely laugh in his face if her dad bodded, bloated, wrinkled and balding 40 something husband even attempted to speak to these hot young girls. Most of them probably have their own great jobs or education, and sexy boyfriends their own age. Forget your delusional porn fantasy

I am afraid to inform you that some married men are okay being sugar daddies here in America. And some hot 20s are selling their services. You can find across college campuses all across the DMV. Again men are transactional creatures okay it's not that hard to understand.

The majority of women you see out in public are not sugar babies. Again, let go of your porn fantasy- these women do not want you, I promise. They see you as a joke (even the sugar babies)

I disagree. It seems like every young woman these days are on OF or some can site selling their body for money. I pity their parents for their poor parental choices and for the young women who think it’s okay to do OF. Disgusting.

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Anonymous wrote:Typical sexist DCUM. Roles reversed, everyone would be applauding the cougar for checking out young hot men. It’s apparently only creepy when it’s a guy doing it. The woman would be met with glee and comments like “ take him home”. Prove me wrong but you can’t. A lot of misandrists throwing around sexism on this site but they get a pass because they’re a woman.

- Signed a woman who hates women like this.

It's almost like men and women are different and have different sexual crime statistics

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman. I check out pretty 20 year olds. I’m not gay. I just notice attractive people. Male and female.

But, is he being obvious about it, like ogling. That's rude, disrespectful to OP and creepy to the young woman.

By and large those women deliberately dress in a manner to attract attention.

It just sometimes doesn’t occur to them that it won’t only attract the eyeballs of their peers. But they don’t have a right to complain about being creeped out by an older man looking, too, and you don’t get to call a man creepy on their behalf because you are insecure and jealous. It isn’t a good look.

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Anonymous wrote:Men “just looking” absolutely shaped my teens and 20s. I hated to go into the Walmart by myself. I felt nervous about walking alone in dc, especially on quiet blocks where it might just be me and a looking man. I absolutely avoided wearing certain clothes in certain places, I always had a cardigan or something. I learned not to laugh too loudly in public, rock to a beat on my headphones, or do anything else that might draw more unwanted attention.

At times I liked the attention, but mostly I think it just restricted my freedom

This is not normal behavior in public, so if people were looking at you, it wasn't because they were mesmerized by your beauty.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s like complaining about a dog’s bark. Super tired of American women. Such children

They are trying to condition the men into liking post fertile bodies but success is not 100% just yet lol

Hahaha. This comment made my morning

Everyone, both men and women, are attracted to 20 somethings at the peak of their fertility. The difference is women dont make fools of themselves by openly ogling random 20 something men and embarrassing their partner in the process. The difference is basic social awareness. The other difference is 90% of women could actually succeed in hooking up with some 20 something hot guy, even if it was a one time thing, whereas 90% of men will have zero chance with any of these young women.

As a man I agree with you. When a woman regardless of age wants to have a sex with you, my God you have to do very little effort to get the p**y. If she is the one who wants it, she is literally begging you with her actions to come get it.

For men it's different.

Is English not your first language?

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Anonymous wrote:Tell him he looks like a creepy pedo. Men think they’re so subtle when they do this but it’s so obvious and gross.

Can we stop throwing around the word pedo here? The women are 20’s, which is of legal age in all U.S. states. That’s by definition not a pedo. Learn the word before you keep throwing it around. As a former child victim, I hate when grown women use that term when it doesn’t even apply to the situation. You just look dumb and uneducated.

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Anonymous wrote:Men “just looking” absolutely shaped my teens and 20s. I hated to go into the Walmart by myself. I felt nervous about walking alone in dc, especially on quiet blocks where it might just be me and a looking man. I absolutely avoided wearing certain clothes in certain places, I always had a cardigan or something. I learned not to laugh too loudly in public, rock to a beat on my headphones, or do anything else that might draw more unwanted attention.

At times I liked the attention, but mostly I think it just restricted my freedom

This is not normal behavior in public, so if people were looking at you, it wasn't because they were mesmerized by your beauty.

NP. What do you think "rock a beat" means? Are you a boomer? Do you think it means throwing rocks?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman. I check out pretty 20 year olds. I’m not gay. I just notice attractive people. Male and female.

But, is he being obvious about it, like ogling. That's rude, disrespectful to OP and creepy to the young woman.

By and large those women deliberately dress in a manner to attract attention.

It just sometimes doesn’t occur to them that it won’t only attract the eyeballs of their peers. But they don’t have a right to complain about being creeped out by an older man looking, too, and you don’t get to call a man creepy on their behalf because you are insecure and jealous. It isn’t a good look.

LOL you sound crazy. The women are minding their business and if they want attention from anyone it's men their own age, not potbellied middle aged Bill with his bald spot