Husband checks out 20 yr olds

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman. I check out pretty 20 year olds. I’m not gay. I just notice attractive people. Male and female.

But, is he being obvious about it, like ogling. That's rude, disrespectful to OP and creepy to the young woman.

This.

[Anonymous]

She shouldn’t dress like a wh@re if she doesn’t want to be ogled like one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just because you are on a diet doesn’t mean you can’t look at the menu.

It’s okay to look. Not okay to perv.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So
What? I also check out 20
Year olds and I’m
50

You’re gross. And the 20 year olds agree.

[Anonymous]

Go to places like Italy, tables of old men sitting around and a beautiful 20 something walks by in a summer dress... the men all overtly admire. Maybe the older women roll their eyes, or maybe not even that because its just the way it is. This behavior is old as time itself, and harmless. What is harnful is shaming a man and psychologically abusing him by being the jealous thought control gestapo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman. I check out pretty 20 year olds. I’m not gay. I just notice attractive people. Male and female.

But, is he being obvious about it, like ogling. That's rude, disrespectful to OP and creepy to the young woman.

How do you know? You just fabricated a picture in your mind and are trying to make it fact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All men are pigs and all women are crazy.

Women are pigs and men are crazy as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Unpopular opinion, but women who want around with their bodies hanging out are asking to be oogled by men (and women) of all ages. I would say the same for men but they don't tend to walk around with their stuff hanging out or a silhouette of their ass/junk.

Really?

Tons of young men walk around completely naked from the waist up.

I'm not a woman but I would guess big biceps and a big muscular chest would be less sexual than a beautiful pair of butt cheeks going up and down in a skin tight legging or skinny jeans or shorts shorts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell him he is pitiful.

This.

I saw a fat, much older man today STARING at an attractive young teenager (high school age)in a parking lot with her mom.

I was so disgusted. I actually yelled, “take a picture, it lasts longer.”

He got mad and cursed me out (of course, misogyny all around.)

I should have said, “Do you also like child pornography?”

So many creeps out there…

You sound a bit creepy yourself. Best of luck working through your issues with men.

[Anonymous]

He's considering his replacement options.

[Anonymous]

That would be such a turnoff. Also, i would feel awful for the 20 something in question. Almost every woman has had experiences of being young and having some creepy older dude leering at you- it's a truly gross feeling.

You need to read him the riot act and tell him to stop doing it or you wont go out with him in public.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s like complaining about a dog’s bark. Super tired of American women. Such children

They are trying to condition the men into liking post fertile bodies but success is not 100% just yet lol

Hahaha. This comment made my morning

[Anonymous]

Like Pavlov's dog, the only way to get through to a man is to make him suffer every time he does something you dont like. Meaning bring it up and start a fight about it directly after. Storm off and give him the silent dream. Shout at him loudly for being a creep so he's embarrassed in public. Bring it up later that night and mention how hurt you were by it. Rinse and repeat until he realizes checking this women out is more trouble than it's worth, and the little sick thrill he gets from checking out young women who would never give him the time of day in the first place is not worth ruining his day/event. He'll learn quick, trust me.

[Anonymous]

He promised to be faithful but he didn't promise to go blind. If he isn't being creepy to the other women or disrespectful to his wife, it's not a big deal. Many women do the same thing, by the way. I see middle aged moms suddenly becoming super cheerful and chatty when talking to handsome or successful men. Men and women are hard wired to react this way to attractive people.

[Anonymous]

OP looked like one those 20 years old at one point in time. Perhaps she is reaching that point in life when she is starting to feel conscious about her body changing and feels insecure.