Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I honestly didn’t realize that watching your child practice was discouraged. The field is about 45 minutes from my home, and as a parent of an only child, I naturally want to be there for her. I work all day on my computer, so by the time practice rolls around, I’d rather not sit in the car or walk around aimlessly. Parking is also limited, and if I leave, there’s no guarantee I’ll find a spot again.
I simply enjoy quietly watching my child practice—never interfering with the coach or distracting anyone. In fact, my child doesn’t even acknowledge me during practice, which I respect. I just want to be nearby in case anything happens, and yes, sometimes I chat with other parents—just normal, friendly socializing.
It’s disheartening how quick people can be to judge other parents. We’re all just trying to do our best, and being present for our children shouldn’t be something we’re made to feel guilty about.
No shame at all - we drive far enough that it makes no sense to go back home, so occasionally my wife and I will go grab some dinner and watch about 45-60 mins of practice. My daughter doesn't mind it at all and enjoys discussing parts of the practice with us on the way home. We're also at a large facility with 8+ fields so we just sit up on the hill out of sight.
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