I have this too. In fact, when I was 14 I went on a road trip thru Europe with a friend and her family. We'd park up in the Black Forest for the night around 11pm and they'd say "hey kid, we want to wake at 5.30 so we can leave at 6am can you do that?" and I'd wake up at 5.30am on the nose to get everyone up and going. |
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You mean you have a distinct emotional reaction to every moment and every interaction? Meaning every THING makes you "feel"? Nothing is ever just neutral? Because that is all on you. I know that when I interact with anyone I am not responsible for any mood or vibe they feel, they generate that on their own: I am not becoming one with them in spirit to create a vibe. |
My mother is Japanese and I'm terrified it's a death omen since the number 4 is unlucky and considered to be linked to death. |
| I am good at using my anxiety as a superpower to anticipate and cover any and all possible scenarios. I have saved my nephew’s life by anticipating something his parents did not. |
| I am really good at detecting when confirmation bias is present... |
| I have an uncanny sense of direction. I can be visiting a new city and find my way back to hotel without a map or navigation. It makes it great for walking around new places because I am never lost. |
OMG my son has the foid/memory talent. It’s a running family joke that every time he shares a family memory he throws in some extraneous detail about what he was eating. |
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I had the odd ability to hit gargantuan home runs with ease when I played in HS. Note that I did so mostly while using a Griffey Jr. model wooden bat. It wasn’t uncommon to clear the 430 ft mark, which was well beyond the center field fence at the HS field. Best was well over 450 on flat ground with no wind aid (or steroids). I was scouted but suffered a bad ankle injury.
I was 17 years old. |
Nope. It’s more nuanced. I can just sense if something is amiss or off kilter or strange. As a child, I could tell from the moment I walked inside from school whether my parents were sober, for instance and could sense danger. It’s almost animalistic. I’ve met people or know people who give me the shivers - I can sense that they are not someone I want to befriend. So I’ll make snap judgements about people and I’ve never been wrong. |
You are literally just describing that you form emotional, personal, judgments about who you meet and interact with. There is nothing magical or special about this and this behavior doesn't benefit you or other people. You are not somehow able an ultimate, godly judge on the goodness or badness of a person in an objective way. |
I don’t think you get what PP is saying. I have this and it isn’t a trauma thing for me. My EQ tests off the charts. It’s become a running joke in my family and with my best friend because I’m never wrong about people. Recently this came up when my best friend was talking about someone at her work I met once and how she did something truly heinous no one ever expected, after like 8 years there. I had met her at a happy hour and told my friend years ago not to trust her, I wasn’t sure why just a vibe. I had forgotten all about that and this person but my best friend remembered, in part because I generally am amiable and like most people so this take was pretty unusual. My husband and mom say the same about me, the always regret when they don’t trust my spidey senses about someone. |
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| I can feel something is wrong in my body. I can feel nervous or downright utterly ill, involving vomiting, if there is something bad happening or about to happen that will affect me, my family, or environment. I'm never wrong- but I never know what the something is. I find out later- not psychic. |
I am also amost never wrong about people. I can tell if they are fake or manipulative, narcissistic, or insecure. I didn’t have a lot of trauma growing up ( I was adopted, but generally happy) however I became very observant growing up as I was raised in an environment that required that- not going to go into details. I didn’t fit in. |