Agree 100% |
There is a massive gulf between actually hard and not incredibly easy. People are the way they are because they chose incredibly easy. That’s the truth. |
I love Looking at my ass in the mirror so I push myself to loook good |
What does physically fit mean? Not having a BMI or body fat % over a certain threshold? Can run a 5 minute mile? Bench press my weight? |
You are half right. But unfortunately people have become too lazy and resistant to do anything other than “incredibly easy.” Anything harder than that forgot it. Netflix and take out. |
You’re talking to a wall. The PP was literally describing having self-discipline in an abundant junk food culture in order to make her case that it takes zero discipline. This site seems especially full of absolute idiots lately. Constantly contradicting themselves and they don’t get it even when you explicitly point it out to them. Maybe it’s the influx of reddit traffic or something. |
It definitely would if I actually was. I would still be nice to all my inferiors though. |
I feel better about myself when I am fit and am hard on myself when I let my diet and fitness slide. I suppose that, to the extent that I judge myself based on my fitness level, I also project a little on others, though I keep it to myself. |
I'm in my mid-40s.
I was never active/fit until about 10 years ago. Never played sports as a kid, was overweight/obese, didn't exercise and didn't see exercise as something other than "to lose weight." I discovered exercise/fitness as an adult, and it's been transformative for me. I don't think it makes me or anyone superior, but there are immeasurable physical and mental/emotional benefits that cannot be replicated in other ways. And having those benefits makes one's life superior (but saying it makes a *person* superior isn't really accurate). |
Did you require any significant self discipline during the pandemic at the beginning not to get day drunk? Probably not. Disagree avoiding the “temptations” of “junk food culture” requires discipline. That presupposes there is some innate drive to eat that garbage. It might be learned but it’s not like the self discipline required to not urinate anywhere you please. |
Thanks for providing evidence for the point made in the second paragraph of the post to which you replied. Now run on back to whatever subreddit you wandered out of. |
That’s the best you have? Are you angry at the donuts that demanded you eat them? |
Same here! Obese/overweight in childhood/in 20s binge dieting due to poor parenting, emotional eating and being uncomfortable with unwanted attention and upset about lack of wanted attention(meaning I would get obsessed over one person and couldnt really see the forest for the trees), I think obsessive thinking and binge eating go hand in hand. I started therapy in 20s and by my 30s really felt freed from binge eating and used exercise as a very healthy coping tool, after kids my BMI is consistently 21 without fluctuations, I dont feel superior now but I felt inferior then, not just for being "fat" but more so for being unable to control my emotions. I really want skin surgery but due to non obesity related medical issues (that are unfortunately multiple and bad) I cannot do that, before I would have had emotional temper tantrums over this reality but I have learned to accept reality and while not happy about it, I can modulate my emotions to neutral about it. I dont feel others who struggle are inferior but rather feel empathy as I know their struggles are real even if they put a mask on/ |
I was not heavy but the opposite- super scrawny with no muscle and no cardio capacity. I could not believe the way I felt when I started doing cardio, lifting, and eating more protein rich foods. It was like I had missed out on a life secret or something all those prior years. |
Yes it does. I’m early 40s and have been serious about strength and cardio for about 3 years now. I’m proud of myself for creating new habits, for sticking with something that’s hard. And I’m proud of being strong and feeling good at a time where most people I know seem to be sliding. I’ll never give it up. |