Do you make your husband shave his low back (and buttock) hair?

Anonymous
I think a fuzzy firm ass is very sexy on a man. Lower back, too.

I definitely prefer a trimmed front crotch area though.

But I do shave my own butt crack and don’t find it hard to do.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wish my man would keep up with grooming. I hate his back hair above his butt. So gross. I keep everything clean and smooth so I expect the same but don’t ask … I need to though!


As a man, I think that's gross.

Does your DH like that? No grown man wants their partner to look pre-pubescents downstairs. It's weird.


Not PP. I get Brazilians because that’s what I like and I’ve always been under the impression the men I’ve been with also like it. Is this not true? I’ve never received a comment about it being “pre-pubescents” but now I’m overanalyzing it.


Most men don’t care.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wish my man would keep up with grooming. I hate his back hair above his butt. So gross. I keep everything clean and smooth so I expect the same but don’t ask … I need to though!


As a man, I think that's gross.

Does your DH like that? No grown man wants their partner to look pre-pubescents downstairs. It's weird.


Not PP. I get Brazilians because that’s what I like and I’ve always been under the impression the men I’ve been with also like it. Is this not true? I’ve never received a comment about it being “pre-pubescents” but now I’m overanalyzing it.


Most men are just happy to be there. Hair or no hair.


+1 Do the Brazilian for you, not because of an unreasonable beauty standard
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I like men natural, as long as they are ok with me being natural too, and not looking like a little girl.


What is with this ridiculous thought that a shaved/waxed woman is like a pre-pubescent girl. That is absurd. Many men are visual and want to see everything. And obviously going down is much more pleasant without hair. That said, women can do whatever they want.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like men natural, as long as they are ok with me being natural too, and not looking like a little girl.


What is with this ridiculous thought that a shaved/waxed woman is like a pre-pubescent girl. That is absurd. Many men are visual and want to see everything. And obviously going down is much more pleasant without hair. That said, women can do whatever they want.


Pubic hair doesn't prevent anyone from seeing what's underneath and I don't know anyone who has hair on their labia minora or clitoris - which where the best action happens. Men are no closer to pubic hair when going down on women than women are when they go down on men. It's also reasonable to assume, given how attractive men find younger females, that not having pubic hair is a sign of 'youth'. Except in a few niche groups, men aren't getting rid of their pubic hair.

Here's an interesting bit of research
https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-019-0868-1



Anonymous
Would never ask for him to shave anything, Just trim a bit in the front.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hairy men are gross.


To each their own. Alec Baldwin and his very hairy chest in his prime, was perfection as far as I'm concerned.
Anonymous
Gimme a bush!
Anonymous
I'm not marrying anyone with butt fur. Hard pass.
Anonymous
I don’t really look back there so I don’t care
Anonymous
I think a goatee is the only dealbreaker for me.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like men natural, as long as they are ok with me being natural too, and not looking like a little girl.


What is with this ridiculous thought that a shaved/waxed woman is like a pre-pubescent girl. That is absurd. Many men are visual and want to see everything. And obviously going down is much more pleasant without hair. That said, women can do whatever they want.


I also don't like my guy to look like a little boy with no hair.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hairy men are gross.


To each their own. Alec Baldwin and his very hairy chest in his prime, was perfection as far as I'm concerned.


I'm old enough to remember Sean Connery, Tom Selleck and Burt Reynolds in their prime! Mmmm! I'd hit that!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Are we talking the butt hair actually in the crack or just on the cheeks?

I wouldn't even know how to shave in my butt crack.

But if it bothers you then you should do it for him.


I always thought everyone shaves in their butt crack
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are we talking the butt hair actually in the crack or just on the cheeks?

I wouldn't even know how to shave in my butt crack.

But if it bothers you then you should do it for him.


I always thought everyone shaves in their butt crack


I have never heard it until this thread. I hope I can forget it!
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