Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's all, don't blame your partner.
WRONG guess lady. Unless you're a man with physical issues then you're correct. Most ED is in the brain however.
Experience talking here. Some women I just can't get hard for on the first go round or any other round. Usually it's an attraction issue when nude, not always, but a particularly sexually open woman that knows what she wants and knows how to please a man, regardless of how ugly she is (again I'm experienced) will get me super hard and can even make me finish 2 and 3 times. Having sex with someone you know is into it and into you makes all the difference in the world. That means for you ladies that won't show off your rear ends bent over without getting all embarrassed or don't know how to stroke and give oral are the most likely to experience a man's ED. But the key is, you have to actually want to do it and enjoy it. It doesn't matter how tired or stressed I am if a woman knows how to be a good lover. Most men aren't looking to rape someone under any circumstances; we have to know you want it. It's true for a long-term marriage (again I'm experienced) also. It gets real old after a number of years giving more than you receive.
Enthusiasm is where it's at. It gets me right over the first time jitters when I'm most likely to experience ED.
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