Erectile dysfunction question

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Once you reach a certain age if a woman is just going through the motions ED can be an issue. Plenty of women, like plenty of men, are lousy in bed.

This^^^

[Anonymous]

OP here. I was not going through the motions. I was very into it!!

[Anonymous]

Men, what about when med allows sustained but can’t ever finish? Whyyy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think often a more sexy partner would make ED less of an issue and a less sexy partner would make it more of an issue, but that's only part of the story. Very individual.

Needless to say, the hotter the partner, ED is less of a problem.

What if the issue is not getting hard or completing to orgasm, but the amount of time he lasts?

[Anonymous]

Yea, my problem with DH is that it is over too quick

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men, what about when med allows sustained but can’t ever finish? Whyyy?

Anxiety or possibly sexuality.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH cannot perform if he is stressed or tired. He also developed ED from watching too much porn. Now he no longer uses porn and has to “save it” for me. He is 44.

That is quite young to develop ED.

I dated a guy with ED at 38. He claimed Propecia caused it

[Anonymous]

I dated a guy in his 40s with ED. I knew it was not me because he had an rx for viagra before he met me. I think for him it was mostly drinking. He never got drunk but had a few drinks every evening. He was otherwise in good shape so I think that was it.

Sex with him on viagra was fantastic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think often a more sexy partner would make ED less of an issue and a less sexy partner would make it more of an issue, but that's only part of the story. Very individual.

Needless to say, the hotter the partner, ED is less of a problem.

What if the issue is not getting hard or completing to orgasm, but the amount of time he lasts?

Well then it wouldn’t be ED, now would it? Start a delayed finishing thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dated a guy in his 40s with ED. I knew it was not me because he had an rx for viagra before he met me. I think for him it was mostly drinking. He never got drunk but had a few drinks every evening. He was otherwise in good shape so I think that was it.

Sex with him on viagra was fantastic.

A lot of dudes take it even if they don’t really need it. Drinking can definitely interfere. It can also screw with your testosterone levels. Some of us guys have a very complicated relationship with our Ds (to be clear I don’t mean Ds as in Divorces. Apparently that’s not clear to some dcumers 😂). Then there’s the plethera of psychological issues that can screw with a man’s unit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dated a guy in his 40s with ED. I knew it was not me because he had an rx for viagra before he met me. I think for him it was mostly drinking. He never got drunk but had a few drinks every evening. He was otherwise in good shape so I think that was it.

Sex with him on viagra was fantastic.

A lot of dudes take it even if they don’t really need it. Drinking can definitely interfere. It can also screw with your testosterone levels. Some of us guys have a very complicated relationship with our Ds (to be clear I don’t mean Ds as in Divorces. Apparently that’s not clear to some dcumers 😂). Then there’s the plethera of psychological issues that can screw with a man’s unit.

Compare to this threads where women discuss all the reasons they can't/won't have sex/get wet and it's revealing the lack of empathy women have for men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Porn addiction, being overweight and having high blood pressure are also huge issues. He needs to see a dr.

DCUM is, if nothing else, very predictable. If a guy can’t get it up, it’s because he’s an unhealthy fatty who watches too much porn.

[Anonymous]

Eww.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's never an issue with my thin hot gf who is 30 years younger than me.

I bet she’s vomiting inside when she’s with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think often a more sexy partner would make ED less of an issue and a less sexy partner would make it more of an issue, but that's only part of the story. Very individual.

Needless to say, the hotter the partner, ED is less of a problem.

What if the issue is not getting hard or completing to orgasm, but the amount of time he lasts?

I have the opposite problem as PIV can be painful if it lasts too long. My husband can last a long time so I make sure that foreplay primes his pump so to speak. To last longer, aren’t ED meds helpful for that?