You are forgetting the kid's undergrad was at a non-HYP ivy - not Cornell. She's already got a plenty of name recognition and opportunities from that alone. It's as if you were telling Bill Gates or Zuckerberg who dropped out of Harvard, "Sorry, I don't believe that for a second. A Harvard degree opens doors Thousands of doors...". |
| One kid from our big 3 had an offer from Cambridge, I believe, but also an HYMPS offer. Not sure what he will pick. |
| For parents, it is important to remember that Oxbridge matriculants will nearly all be in the top 10% from their 6th Form school. Not everyone can receive a 1st class degree or even a 2/1. So student mental health is an ongoing issue, especially for students who used to be top 10% and now might end up in the bottom tier at Oxbridge. The tripos exams weight heavily and are no joke, even for the best students. If DC matriculates, please provide solid ongoing moral and emotional support, Do not rely on Facetime to evaluate how DC is feeling. Try to visit if you can. |
Are you a former student there? |
I went to Oxford and everyone there says "reading." All the time. |
There are some introverts who are genuinely happy and contented spending most of their time solo. No one will bother them. But there are also introverts who really crave and need those small-group close friendships. No one will pursue them. They need to decide how extrovert they are willing and able to play in order to meet people. They also need to understand that it takes a lot of time. Compared to Americans, British friends can find it normal to spend a longer window getting to know someone before they drop their guard. If DC is sensitive, emotionally vulnerable, or lacking a strong sense of self, I'd do a lot of work ahead of time to plan and prepare for weathering the transition and for putting oneself out there in new activities. Oxford grad, MPhil |
This is very true. I have an American student there now so read the Oxford parents Facebook page. Even the British kids (pre-screened by their educational system) have difficulties adjusting and decide to or are asked to rusticate |
I think that’s a pretty obvious no. |
+1. My Oxford kid is all over the university every day. There are 39 colleges. He sleeps at one, sees his tutors in two others, takes class in three and visits friends in their colleges. He uses all the libraries for his work. He is always walking so finds it easy to eat what he wants and not gain weight |
| Anyone have experience with Math at Cambridge? |
| We know three people. They loved it, worked all the time, went on to get advanced degrees, and now interestingly they all teach secondary school mathematics. They find it very rewarding. |
Congrats. DC currently at Oxbridge after declining offers from 3 HYPMS. Could not be happier with their choice. Will be back to the US after 3 years for grad studies. Choice of college makes little difference academically, so would just choose one in the center as your DC will then be close to many other colleges and to most social and cultural life. |
FWIW we received a pre-offer letter that was well before the official release date. The college said they let international students know earlier to help them get their financial bursary requests in order. |
| The UK foreign office declined 33% of overseas student visas (across the board) this year, so there will be fewer from the US able to attend than previously. |
Lol. It is not Americans getting into Oxbridge that are being denied visas! It is “students” from developing countries that were using bs diploma mill schools to get into the country and then disappear. |