Signs your wife is having an affair

[Anonymous]

Many women go through a mid-life crisis in their 40s. They question who they are and their purpose. They Klingon to their fleeting youth by having an affair.

They "Klingon" to their fleeting youth?

Maybe they should talk about cosmetic surgery with Leonard McCoy, M.D. of Starfleet Medical.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If it’s an affair, not a one time thing, the perpetrator will be caught up in a fantasy, which means they won’t be “there” for you. They will seem distracted, forget or disregard obligations, be glued to their phone. Weirdly they also may tend to be more critical of others for moral failings. Projection to draw your attention over to someone else as being a bad person, not him/her.

Yep. My spouse talked about his best friend and how awful he was about cheating/infidelity, etc. It was like testing the waters and aksi serves to make you think they have some morality-ethics-empathy. They often have a weird disconnect. For example, “I never say anything bad about my wife and always talk highly of her—so therefore I’m there mind they don’t think their cheating is bad or like the other guy’s—because hey- I love my wife.

We also had a running joke about his “mistress”. Well- I’ll be damned he actually had one. It’s a complete mind fkkkk.

Hope he’s your ex-spouse. Sorry it sounds next-level manipulative mind eff-erry The “benevolent cheater.” If he loves his wife so much why does he have to make her a stooge by having a one-sided joke, not a joke for two, that he has a mistress - ha ha. I swear these sickos get off on a dupe within a dupe. Dump his a$$ and see if he’s still laughing.

[Anonymous]

How about no longer wearing a wedding ring?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Woman having an affair here. You people are so dramatic. You seriously think someone who is sleeping w someone who isn't their spouse is using their regular email/texting apps and actually making phone calls to their AP from anything other than a landline that can’t be traced? You seriously think that someone w a spouse and kids and a job has time to keep up with a burner phone?

If this is truly what you think someone having an affair does, I hate to imagine how you are “monitoring” your kids phones.

The part about stacking coins though is spot on. Follow that trail.

What’s stacking coins? I’ve seen this answer before.

X2. Not familiar with any hidden meaning.

Stacking coins means getting individual finances together (usually with the intent of leaving). So secret bank accounts or an existing individual bank account that’s abnormally higher than usual.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you are in Virginia, spend the money on a PI to bust her. It'll pay off during the settlement.

Ask me how I know.

*Don't hack* anything or jailbreak her phone or anything.

VA is an anachronism stuck in the 1700s. The state has no business in your marriage or bedroom. Vote to remove these insane laws (especially alimony laws).

I don’t think the law is insane. I think affairs should be punishable this way. Technically it’s a crime and people who have them should be jailed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are in Virginia, spend the money on a PI to bust her. It'll pay off during the settlement.

Ask me how I know.

*Don't hack* anything or jailbreak her phone or anything.

VA is an anachronism stuck in the 1700s. The state has no business in your marriage or bedroom. Vote to remove these insane laws (especially alimony laws).

Eliminate alimony.

No, that's completely unfair if one spouse left the workforce to focus on home/kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Her panties have dried semen

What if a condom was used?

Do you really think they would use a condom? Me thinks not…

Folks here put people in these very limiting boxes which assume if somebody makes one (albeit very) bad choice then ALL of their choices are going to be bad. That just isn't the case. People are complex.