Signs your wife is having an affair
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Anonymous
| A friend of mine got home from a trip one day early to surprise his wife and she surprised him with a visitor. That was a pretty clear sign. I remember this happening to a professional baseball player a number of years ago. He had been traded but they hadn’t moved but he came home to surprise her. |
Anonymous
| Are women better at hiding their tracks or is it that men are less suspicious and/or in denial? |
Anonymous
Women are way better at hiding their tracks, once mine knew I was onto her she did a CIA level sanitization of phones, pads and computers. There were only faint traces before the discovery |
Anonymous
| Her AP’s wife shows up at your house. |
Anonymous
| She's got bruises on the inside of her mouth. Try to inspect when she's asleep |
Anonymous
Women usually don’t cheat for sex. They cheat because something is missing (or they feel like something is missing), and/or as an exit affair. So you have a situation where 1) the husband isn’t paying attention (what’s usually “missing” from the relationship), and/or 2) she’s gearing up to leave (thus very aware of any signals she is giving off). |
Anonymous
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My wife met me at the door the other night in a sexy negligee. Unfortunately, she was just coming home.
-Rodney Dangerfield |
Anonymous
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The number one thing nowadays will ALWAYS be the phone. More guarded, new passcode, turning over when setting it down, taking into the bathroom - basically glued. Will not turn over even for inocuous things without hard shoulder surfing to make sure you're not creeping in other areas.
So - just ask for the phone - and see the fireworks. |
Anonymous
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Things in general (outside of phone):
Taking more care at looks - new haircut, clothes, "working out" all of the sudden Suddenly has unaccounted time - longer getting home from work, needs to work late, needs to all of the sudden work weekend or nights, suddenly work needs them to go on a trip Becomes highly critical and annoyed at everything - and vocal about it May bring up unhappiness in general - about "life", "choices", "never wanted to get married", "need to find themselves" - looks like midlife or existential crisis Becomes hostile and/or emotional and sudden outbursts requiring need to "get away for a few hours" Needs "me" time - a lot of it - that doesn't include you or the kids |
Anonymous
Most people just get a burner phone. |
Anonymous
Maybe - if they're pros or at it for a while, but first affair and just getting into it they are not going to be that clever. |
Anonymous
Lol - I’ve had a couple cycles of gaining a little weight and then I go nuts working out to get it off, which inevitably leads to weight loss, more confidence, new clothes, dressing up bc I know I look good again etc. and then I want to have more sex w DH bc I feel better about myself. I’ve never had, nor ever considered, an affair. |
Anonymous
OP asked for possible signs. These are possible signs. No one is suggesting that if you buy new clothes you're boinking someone else. It's simply a list of things that you can look for if you're suspecting and take the totality of incidents and changes to look at the issue objectively. Honestly - this is your contribution? Read the room. |
Anonymous
| Sheesh. I’m a SAHM since Covid and in the past two years have tried to de-frump myself. I groom more, dress better, and bought myself underwear that wasn’t junky. I hope DH isn’t suspicious… I’m doing it for him! It helps me feel more like a woman too which helps my waning libido. |
Anonymous
| I take my phone with me into the bathroom all the time. Don’t you guys want entertainment while you’re doing all your boring things? |