OP Non it’s not and I implied that earlier. Everything is a matter of degree for sure. Parents are given many mixed messages and it is hard to find the right balance of involvement. |
OP Thank you SLAC professor. That is an interesting point about the post truth era.. what does this mean in terms of higher education? Don’t students still have to back up theoretical claims with empirical or scientific evidence? Also interesting that you have observed a drop over such a long time. Agree that mental health care is necessary for learning. Thanks for your reply. |
Clueless. From parent of a mom with a son in public hs and another in catholic hs. |
Same. The “smart” kids are doing way more rigorous work nowadays. But standards are lower for everyone else - no papers, tons of basic grammar and spelling errors, cheating, etc. |
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R2 prof here. Here is where I really notice changes in student academic readiness over the last 20 years.
1. Reading. Students have more and more trouble now reading to retain information (even just for discussion in class) and especially reading for key concepts. It is hard for them to distill a summary of an argument or even the key points of a historical narrative from a textbook. They confuse reading for recreation (feet up, nothing in hard but book or device) with reading for study (active engagement, taking notes or writing summaries). 2. Ungraded preparation - or lack thereof. Students become stressed when 'homework' takes more than 2-3 hours, and they tend not to prepare for class unless that preparation involves a graded deliverable ( = advance reading or ungraded exercises often do not get done). 3. Resource possession vs. engagement with material. Students tend to assume that if they have a PowerPoint and a study guide, the work is already largely over, and what they need to do is consult those things ahead of an exam, rather than reading before, taking notes during, and asking questions after class. 4. Resilience and ownership. Students unfortunately tend to assign blame to what they characterize as their natural or inborn traits as students (or worse, people) if they do not do well, rather than assessing their choices and adapting. They tend to see their academic success almost as something predetermined by their personalities, and therefore largely out of their hands. (They also - so very, very many of them - have a habit of automatically saying, "I take full responsibility" when they make a mistake, as if that phrase alone is supposed to end any conversation about the problem at hand.) |
That's all in here: https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Adult-Overparenting-Prepare/dp/1250093635 |
+100 Agreed. The “smart” kids are doing way more rigorous work nowadays. I am also in STEM field and my public school kid’s Calc BC and Physics C classes are more rigorous than I did. My kids is are also surrounded by smarter and higher achieving kids than I was. My kids will do well in life. It’s all going to be fine. |
+1 Very astute observation. |
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My best friend teaches at University and she sees a number of things. kidseither have high academic skills but are intractable because they are taught in such a paranoid and rigid manner the littlest thing sets them off, kids who literally cannot write a paper and not prepared at all and they suspect it is not being prepared and the TO and finally kids whose might as well have their parents come to school. Your parents are not supposed to be calling/emailing the professor -failure to launch syndrome. They also find they have less freedom to teach because they are worried some kid is going to post a snippet of a lecture and they will have to explain to the world. Yes tenure protects your job but not your emotions. Kids of today are bratty and they sometimes wonder if they should retire. |
| Students are mean. They speak in a disrespectful way to professors. They view reading as unnecessary. They don’t take notes anymore because they think it is all in PowerPoint. They don’t have perseverance to complete long homeworks. They complain a lot. They write at all hours of the night and expect professors to Zoom in at night to help with individual homework in the evening because they don’t attend office hours. They write unfactual things on evaluations out of spite from bad grades. They have a sense of entitlement with everything. They want study guides to be handed to them. They want both in person and video lectures. They want professors personal notes. It goes on and on with laziness and demands. There’s also everyone tossing around anxiety as the problem, but no one knows for sure. |
OP - I guess what you are seeing is what I feared may be the case. That is a thorough list and I will be thinking more about all of them. Thank you. Have you already reported this to public state school officials in your state? It might help for HS teachers to be more aware of where many students are struggling in college so that they can help their students work on those factors. I know teaching is in disarray with many shortages. However, there are still many devoted teachers. I am wondering whether the differences reported in what college professors are seeing in terms of ability to cope well with college is partially reflecting broader gulfs between strong students who attended advantaged or selective high schools and students who attended more disadvantaged high schools without as many resources/ extra tutoring/ parental support. It appears that the professors from what sound like selective colleges are seeing less drastic lack of college preparedness compared to you at the D2 school and the community college professor. Thanks again for your thoughtful reply. |
OP I am very sorry for your experience. This sounds out of control and absurd expectations/ sense of entitlement. May I ask what type of learning institution you teach at? |
So you think your son in a Catholic hs will be much better prepared for college than your son in a public hs? Because that it what the earlier PPs are claiming. |
I mean students are required to quarantine 5 days for COVID. How hard is it to turn on a zoom and press record for lectures. Sure expecting teachers to respond at midnight is insane but answering emails in 24 hours is just plain work. Your job is to teach. I doubt they want study notes but it should be clear what to study. I doubt it’s in factual evaluation it’s just ones they don’t like |