I thought the same thing ![]() |
Don’t confuse optional (for upperclassmen) auxiliaries with other things. My senior lives off-campus with no meal plan. |
How many threads do we see on this board and on the other DCUM school forums about this topic? People want to know how many from Blair were admitted to MIT, HYPS, etc. and don't see the point of working hard in e.g. the Blair math magnet or TJ if the outcome is UMD-CP or UVA. Elite schools admissions serve as a proxy for achievement (and intelligence) in these discussions all the time. It's ridiculous to pretend otherwise. |
Yep! My spouse when to U of R in the 90s when it was 25K a year. By the inflation calculator, it should *only* be 49K. They liked the school, but don't 83K a year like it. |
+1000 There are many things in life most people will not be able to afford and choices are made, where to attend college is no different, nobody is entitled to an elite education. Choices: Honda vs Tesla, renting vs owning a townhome vs owning a house vs owning a large fancy house, private schools vs accepting the publics in area you can afford to own/rent, driving vacation to see family vs driving vacation to the beach vs flying to Disney vs flying to Europe, saving for retirement vs hoping you somehow survive or can continue to work, cooking all meals at home vs dining out for lunches and many dinners, driving 15 yo cars vs owning new luxury vehicles, letting your 16 yo new driver share Mom/Dad's car vs 16 yo getting a brand new car to drive, the list goes on and on. |
Not really. Where you go does not matter nearly as much as what you do while you are there. Smart highly motivated kids will excel wherever they go, perhaps even more so if they can go and not worry about finances/future loans/etc. |
of course they can. They can still get FA. But making it $90K excludes a lot more kids. Low income kids in CA get all kinds of aid.. pell grant, cal grant, and USC will also provide aid. I went to college in CA as a resident and got cal grants and pell grants. |
Only in the United States is higher education compared to luxury goods. |
No one compares a state flagship to luxury goods. Also note, schools that are compared to luxury goods do a good job attracting full pay international students. |
Not comparing "higher education" alone to luxury goods. Comparing the Elite T25-30 Universities. Those that only a few will gain admission to anyhow. Plenty of excellent options for getting a "higher education" available. The smart people recognize that and don't worry. They know they will excel no matter where they get their education. Only 2 members of the Executive team at my company have anything near an "elite education". Yet somehow the other 18 managed this when they got their education from "lower level schools", and I'm not talking "they went to UVA instead of Harvard". I'm talking "they went to Towson or U Mary Washington instead of Harvard" for the majority of them. Yet somehow those 18 are also executives with impressive careers and damn good at what they do. They have accomplished careers and worth millions. They are there because of their hard word and smarts and dedication to the job. Once you get your first job nobody cares where you went to college and even for the first jobs, most don't care---in tech: FAANG hires outside of T25 schools, they might hire a few more from CMU/MIT/CalTech but they hire everywhere, and once you are at FAANG nobody cares where you went, they care what you do on the job. |
Actually in Germany people laugh at the spoiled children of the rich who attend private college because they couldn’t get into an affordable public school. So I can’t agree. The difference is that *some* Americans are too impressed by expensive schools. |
For a lot of students, top privates are way cheaper to attend than state flagships. That’s partially where the frenzy to get in comes from. |
Asian immigrant here, genuine question - why do we need full fledged degrees in Social Work that cost $$$'s? Can't social work knowledge acquired by an elective class, enrichment lectures, internships ? |
You can work as a social work with a BS in social work (usually offered by state schools). |
My DS was accepted by USC in 2019 with neither merit nor financial aid. He decided to attend UVA instead and will graduate in May. DH and I will give him 100K and a tesla model 3 as graduation gifts from the savings of not attending USC. 90k/yr tuition is absolutely nut, imho. |