Can 50 YO Men Be "Hot"?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My DH is 52 and smoking!

Objectively, no he’s not. But cognitive dissonance has a positive side.

Nope, he is hot to everyone. He was extremely good looking when we met and he got hit on by both women and men all the time.

Still not objective.

Lol, ok! I have lived with him for years and he gets attention everywhere he goes. He is just one of those people that is very attractive physically but also personality-wise.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My DH is 52 and smoking!

Objectively, no he’s not. But cognitive dissonance has a positive side.

Nope, he is hot to everyone. He was extremely good looking when we met and he got hit on by both women and men all the time.

Still not objective.

Lol, ok! I have lived with him for years and he gets attention everywhere he goes. He is just one of those people that is very attractive physically but also personality-wise.

Still not objective. Post a pic, if you are so confident.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hate to say it but hot, single 50 gray old men aren’t dating 50 year old women

My hot attractive boyfriend is 42, I’m 47. What age go hot single 50 yo men date?

I'm mid-50s. Current girlfriend is 23. Here are the ages of my previous 6 girlfriends: 23, 26, 27, 27, 29, 41.

I call BS. Men like that don’t hang around DCUM.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Plenty of hot fit men at that age. See Morris Chestnut, a rather extreme example.

I was gonna say Taye Diggs - but I see both of us have been watching Best Man: Final Chapters.

If you google Tate Diggs now and then you will still see he is only hot “for his age”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hate to say it but hot, single 50 gray old men aren’t dating 50 year old women

My hot attractive boyfriend is 42, I’m 47. What age go hot single 50 yo men date?

I'm mid-50s. Current girlfriend is 23. Here are the ages of my previous 6 girlfriends: 23, 26, 27, 27, 29, 41.

I call BS. Men like that don’t hang around DCUM.

+1. Lol. If PP were so hot he wouldn’t need to hang around here proving to anonymous randos that he’s hot.

Plus, what kind of 23 yo wants a mid-50s man. Just sayin’.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH is 52 and smoking!

Objectively, no he’s not. But cognitive dissonance has a positive side.

Nope, he is hot to everyone. He was extremely good looking when we met and he got hit on by both women and men all the time.

Still not objective.

Lol, ok! I have lived with him for years and he gets attention everywhere he goes. He is just one of those people that is very attractive physically but also personality-wise.

Still not objective. Post a pic, if you are so confident.

Oh, I am but I'm not posting a pic just to prove it to you, PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH is 52 and smoking!

Objectively, no he’s not. But cognitive dissonance has a positive side.

Nope, he is hot to everyone. He was extremely good looking when we met and he got hit on by both women and men all the time.

Still not objective.

Lol, ok! I have lived with him for years and he gets attention everywhere he goes. He is just one of those people that is very attractive physically but also personality-wise.

Still not objective. Post a pic, if you are so confident.

Oh, I am but I'm not posting a pic just to prove it to you, PP.

You can’t handle the truth.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hate to say it but hot, single 50 gray old men aren’t dating 50 year old women

My hot attractive boyfriend is 42, I’m 47. What age go hot single 50 yo men date?

I'm mid-50s. Current girlfriend is 23. Here are the ages of my previous 6 girlfriends: 23, 26, 27, 27, 29, 41.

I call BS. Men like that don’t hang around DCUM.

+1. Lol. If PP were so hot he wouldn’t need to hang around here proving to anonymous randos that he’s hot.

Plus, what kind of 23 yo wants a mid-50s man. Just sayin’.

You know what kind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My recently divorced sister is complaining that there are no "hot" men her age (48) and I simply disagree. I see plenty of attractive men that age.

Am I just a weirdo?

Men getting hotter with age.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:George Clooney is 61

Brad Pitt is 59

Both look it. Not attractive anymore.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Does she only date white men? They don’t age very well. My H is Hispanic, has a full head of thick hair, zero wrinkles, and still has the same body he had at 30. Find a brown or black guy who works out and you’re good to go.

This, this, this.

WUT? All Hispanics, men and women, turn into Weeble Wobbles around 50.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty hot at 63. Single/widower. Have most of my hair and it's only recently started to go grey on the sides. Not one single wrinkle on my face. Not in too bad shape but need to lose about 10-15 pounds, and I will by spring time. I really do pass for much younger and have a lot of fun with it sometimes. We aren't all geezing in our older ages.

LOL!

The wrinkles we are talking about are not on the face.

Eww bad imagery!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hate to say it but hot, single 50 gray old men aren’t dating 50 year old women

My hot attractive boyfriend is 42, I’m 47. What age go hot single 50 yo men date?

I'm mid-50s. Current girlfriend is 23. Here are the ages of my previous 6 girlfriends: 23, 26, 27, 27, 29, 41.

so you're saying you pay well?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m reading this thread with interest. What would be acceptable to this group? Would it only be acceptable to say You’re right, no person 50 or older could be considered hot or even attractive. By that age you must throw in the towel and resign yourself to a life of quiet dignity wearing velour tracksuits and pining over the grandkids all day? In reality, at 51 I’m running around in jeans juggling work, teen kids, and a busy social life with hubby. It might not be “hot,” but it’s not geriatric.

Attractive for 50s/60s...etc exists but hot does not. You don't need to resign yourself to anything but be realistic. The most fit healthy and stylish 50+ is not going to be hot. Helen Mirren put up the best fight but even she succumbed to very attractive. The men mentioned in this thread were once hot and now not even attractive.