Can 50 YO Men Be "Hot"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can be hot *for their age. Same for women. I find my 50+ year old DH hot. He doesn’t look like a 30 year old and he shouldn’t. I’m almost 50 and not looking at younger men.

When I was younger, I never found a 50+ year old man attractive. I don’t get young women who date older men.

Yes, same.

Ditto for me. As I have aged, what I find attractive to me has changed. A man aging naturally with grey hair and wrinkles who works on staying healthy would not have been sexy to me in my 20s or 30s but definitely is now. I can appreciate that a younger man is attractive or fit, but he is not appealing to me personally in any way, and I'm sure I wouldn't be appealing to him either. I'd remind him of his mom.

+ another one. Dh and I have been together since we were 20. We're 50 now and I still find him to be smoking hot. When I was 20, I liked 20 year old men. Now that I'm 50, I notice guys who are 45+. Hell, I still think Harrison Ford, who is 80 or something, is handsome and attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can be hot *for their age. Same for women. I find my 50+ year old DH hot. He doesn’t look like a 30 year old and he shouldn’t. I’m almost 50 and not looking at younger men.

When I was younger, I never found a 50+ year old man attractive. I don’t get young women who date older men.

Yes, same.

Ditto for me. As I have aged, what I find attractive to me has changed. A man aging naturally with grey hair and wrinkles who works on staying healthy would not have been sexy to me in my 20s or 30s but definitely is now. I can appreciate that a younger man is attractive or fit, but he is not appealing to me personally in any way, and I'm sure I wouldn't be appealing to him either. I'd remind him of his mom.

+ another one. Dh and I have been together since we were 20. We're 50 now and I still find him to be smoking hot. When I was 20, I liked 20 year old men. Now that I'm 50, I notice guys who are 45+. Hell, I still think Harrison Ford, who is 80 or something, is handsome and attractive.

I don’t think it’s the same for most men.

[Anonymous]

Check out michael imperioli. Or george clooney?

[Anonymous]

I’m 51 and have kept in great shape. I still have all of my hair and dress stylish. I’m skiing with the family this week and noticed some young girls checking me out when we were picking up our rental ski gear. It was pretty confidence inspiring until I noticed they were looking at my 17 YO son who was standing behind me.

[Anonymous]

Typically when they are rich

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can be hot *for their age. Same for women. I find my 50+ year old DH hot. He doesn’t look like a 30 year old and he shouldn’t. I’m almost 50 and not looking at younger men.

When I was younger, I never found a 50+ year old man attractive. I don’t get young women who date older men.

I don't exactly understand why they do it either, but I'm grateful. I do know that the 20s women I've been with were turned on, and having Os. I also know I treat them better than the guys their age.

Daddy issues.

They don't seem to have daddy issues. Intact families with involved fathers. If anything they are "daddy's girls".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 51 and have kept in great shape. I still have all of my hair and dress stylish. I’m skiing with the family this week and noticed some young girls checking me out when we were picking up our rental ski gear. It was pretty confidence inspiring until I noticed they were looking at my 17 YO son who was standing behind me.

This is great!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can be hot *for their age. Same for women. I find my 50+ year old DH hot. He doesn’t look like a 30 year old and he shouldn’t. I’m almost 50 and not looking at younger men.

When I was younger, I never found a 50+ year old man attractive. I don’t get young women who date older men.

Yes, same.

Ditto for me. As I have aged, what I find attractive to me has changed. A man aging naturally with grey hair and wrinkles who works on staying healthy would not have been sexy to me in my 20s or 30s but definitely is now. I can appreciate that a younger man is attractive or fit, but he is not appealing to me personally in any way, and I'm sure I wouldn't be appealing to him either. I'd remind him of his mom.

+ another one. Dh and I have been together since we were 20. We're 50 now and I still find him to be smoking hot. When I was 20, I liked 20 year old men. Now that I'm 50, I notice guys who are 45+. Hell, I still think Harrison Ford, who is 80 or something, is handsome and attractive.

Lol it’s one thing to watch someone on screen, it is another thing all together to hang around and f$ck an 80 year old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Check out michael imperioli. Or george clooney?

Clooney is 5’10” and 61 years old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Check out michael imperioli. Or george clooney?

Clooney is 5’10” and 61 years old.

and mega rich with personal trainers

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can be hot *for their age. Same for women. I find my 50+ year old DH hot. He doesn’t look like a 30 year old and he shouldn’t. I’m almost 50 and not looking at younger men.

When I was younger, I never found a 50+ year old man attractive. I don’t get young women who date older men.

Yes, same.

Ditto for me. As I have aged, what I find attractive to me has changed. A man aging naturally with grey hair and wrinkles who works on staying healthy would not have been sexy to me in my 20s or 30s but definitely is now. I can appreciate that a younger man is attractive or fit, but he is not appealing to me personally in any way, and I'm sure I wouldn't be appealing to him either. I'd remind him of his mom.

+ another one. Dh and I have been together since we were 20. We're 50 now and I still find him to be smoking hot. When I was 20, I liked 20 year old men. Now that I'm 50, I notice guys who are 45+. Hell, I still think Harrison Ford, who is 80 or something, is handsome and attractive.

I don’t think it’s the same for most men.

Thankfully it is for my dh. Although, I've held up pretty well so far and it isn't all about looks. There's a shared history and love. Ymmv, but we're good

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They can be hot *for their age. Same for women. I find my 50+ year old DH hot. He doesn’t look like a 30 year old and he shouldn’t. I’m almost 50 and not looking at younger men.

When I was younger, I never found a 50+ year old man attractive. I don’t get young women who date older men.

Yes, same.

Ditto for me. As I have aged, what I find attractive to me has changed. A man aging naturally with grey hair and wrinkles who works on staying healthy would not have been sexy to me in my 20s or 30s but definitely is now. I can appreciate that a younger man is attractive or fit, but he is not appealing to me personally in any way, and I'm sure I wouldn't be appealing to him either. I'd remind him of his mom.

+ another one. Dh and I have been together since we were 20. We're 50 now and I still find him to be smoking hot. When I was 20, I liked 20 year old men. Now that I'm 50, I notice guys who are 45+. Hell, I still think Harrison Ford, who is 80 or something, is handsome and attractive.

Lol it’s one thing to watch someone on screen, it is another thing all together to hang around and f$ck an 80 year old.

Calista Flockhart doesn't seem to mind it. He's handsome still.

[Anonymous]

Nope, you are moped. A moped with very fat tires and mud flaps.

Aww aren’t you cute? I’d say up your daily dosage of meds because your crazy is starting to show.

A better metaphor would be that you are like an old Ford 150, with an extended cab and an extra large bed. Your cab has lots of room to carry the many people that ride in you. Your extra large bed can handle whatever size load comes your way.
However, you were made to be worked hard and put away wet. No one is ever going to drive you on a date.

You need to stop with the "daily dosage of meds" crap. It is the worse kind of person who uses mental illness as an insult.

It is the end of 2022. Please get a clue and grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Nope, you are moped. A moped with very fat tires and mud flaps.

Aww aren’t you cute? I’d say up your daily dosage of meds because your crazy is starting to show.

A better metaphor would be that you are like an old Ford 150, with an extended cab and an extra large bed. Your cab has lots of room to carry the many people that ride in you. Your extra large bed can handle whatever size load comes your way.
However, you were made to be worked hard and put away wet. No one is ever going to drive you on a date.

You need to stop with the "daily dosage of meds" crap. It is the worse kind of person who uses mental illness as an insult.

It is the end of 2022. Please get a clue and grow up.

You are responding to mutiple posters here and treating them as one which is hilarious. Do you even realize how insane your posts are? It is you that needs to get a clue buddy. I hope I don't know you in real life.

[Anonymous]

Nobody cares what you think you know. You have all these made up scenarios. You spend a lot of time alone in that basement for sure.

You are confusing different posters then, as the same poster. I certainly did not trash any over 50 men. I am actually a nice person. Did not talk about men young enough to be my kids. I get that you are trying very hard to one-up me constantly and it is important to you.

Honey,

We are all actually nice people on here. You are far from special.

You were the poster saying that the PP spent a lot of time alone in the basement. And you were the poster writing crap about men over 50. Own it.

It should be important to you to be truthful.