This and Asian-American women are independent and strong minded. |
Your trope is tired and loaded with racism. It’s also a tad misogynistic to assume Asian women have no agency when it comes to choosing a mate. It is perhaps you who are projecting your prejudices on Asian women. It’s offensive. Lemme guess, you have an Asian friend so that gives you license to make foolish statements? Please do better and refrain from talking about something you know nothing about. |
This^. These couples are meeting in colleges, at work or social settings and falling in love, not picking poor Asian women from poverty ridden countries. |
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Nothing triggers white women more than attractive Asian women.
It’s funny. |
| Love happens, its not internet dating where you use algorithms to arrange it. |
+1. High achieving white men gravitate toward Asian women because they are generally smart, thin, beautiful, and independently successful. |
Opposites attract. No one needs to read anything more into it. |
That’s what people used to say about white men that see white women with black men. |
| Asian-American woman here. I’d say most of my AA friends are attracted to white guys because of their looks and how they treat women. AA guys tend to take them for granted. |
I thought the key word among dcum these days was assortive mating. |
Nah, I don’t want someone who reminds me of my Dad, even though I had an awesome one. |
| Christian here married to a Jew. Neither of us grew up very observant (but still somewhat observant.) We basically just ended up non-religious which suits us both and our kids just fine. It’s really only an issue occasionally at school when some girl asks my DD incredulously “you don’t go to CHURCH? Do you even believe in JESUS???” with her eyes wide as saucers. |
I dunno…maybe? Not really. The type of white women that have black partners aren’t really on the radar of dc/nyc type white men. Those white dudes don’t care Jenners and kardashians and their Ilk like black dudes. However the opposite isn’t true. The type of white guys that Asian girls get are in demand from similarly milieu of white girls |
Another AA woman here -- stereotypes about Asian looks come from white supremacy, so not great to buy into that whole white men look better idea. As for which guys treated me worst, a real mix in there... some of them white. |