transfer the house title to me or I'm leaving you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here,

Everyone one here appears to be missing the point and simply focusing on why a wife should be on the deed, in part because its humiliating not to.

I didn't meet her until I was in my 40s and everything I had I earned on my own.
Had I met her when I was young and broke and we built everything together then she would have been on every title and deed.
Unfortunately; I understand divorce law and was/am rightfully concerned about losing everything in a no-fault divorce proceeding at an age where I simply can't rebuild.
If a woman doesn't comingle her assets its simply considered wise for her to protect herself. Apparently if a man protects himself he is unsuitable for marriage.

I didn't ask her to comingle any of her assets because I wasn't with her for her money.
She was the beneficiary of everything.

Here is the point:

If its humiliating for a woman not to be on the deed of a house that was purchased prior to marriage, isn't it just as humiliating (even more) for his wife to say I won't be your wife unless you give me hundreds of thousands of dollars?

In effect this means the woman isn't with the man for love. To her, his value isn't in his character, his ethic, its simply his ability to transfer assets to her and unless he can afford to risk large losses he isn't worth staying with.

I’m a woman who agrees with you OP. There was nothing stopping her from taking her own salary and simply investing in a rental property of her own to build her own wealth. She could have easily drawn the line and said ‘your home, your responsibility, I just live here with you and will help keep it clean because that benefits me as well’. I have a male friend who got screwed during a divorce. His wife refuses to work to this day (60 years old now) despite having an Ivy League education. She’s lived off his money after the divorce because the state they live in said he had to pay her.

You’re an idiot. If she buys a rental property while married, half of that property belongs to OP in a divorce. He effectively closed off the primary avenue of building wealth to his wife — someone he supposedly loved.

Of COURSE she divorced him.

Not right. If she had separate property or they had an agreement all still hers.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

huh.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

Stupid troll is stupid.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

Who told it was the story about the same divorce?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

It's probably a different person. In my circle of male friends, at least two of the guys have been hit up with the "give me the house" scam by their relatively-recent wives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

It's probably a different person. In my circle of male friends, at least two of the guys have been hit up with the "give me the house" scam by their relatively-recent wives.

Did these guys discuss the house issue with the new wives prior to getting married? This would have helped both parties adjust expectations

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

It's probably a different person. In my circle of male friends, at least two of the guys have been hit up with the "give me the house" scam by their relatively-recent wives.

The person with access to the ip addressed says it’s the same person, so I’m going to go with that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

It's probably a different person. In my circle of male friends, at least two of the guys have been hit up with the "give me the house" scam by their relatively-recent wives.

The person with access to the ip addressed says it’s the same person, so I’m going to go with that.

How do you know the poster above has access to the ip address?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

It's probably a different person. In my circle of male friends, at least two of the guys have been hit up with the "give me the house" scam by their relatively-recent wives.

The person with access to the ip addressed says it’s the same person, so I’m going to go with that.

How do you know the poster above has access to the ip address?

Jsteele is the website owner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

jsteele wrote:Hey OP, there are a few discrepancies between this thread and your earlier one:

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1015220.page

What about the baby?

oh dear. If she DID have a baby with an affair partner, that's awful. I wouldn't want to give her a penny.

You get that it’s far more likely OP is lying about everything, right? You really think he wouldn’t have mentioned and affair baby in this thread to get more sympathy?

It's probably a different person. In my circle of male friends, at least two of the guys have been hit up with the "give me the house" scam by their relatively-recent wives.

The person with access to the ip addressed says it’s the same person, so I’m going to go with that.

yup. Case closed. Are both stories false? I think so. Is OP writing a novel or a short story and needs help?