Appropriate child support for this situation

[Anonymous]

By the way, the braces should be considered an extraordinary medical expense that counts on top of the regular assumed expenses. I.e. Their cost is added to the calculation to give non-custodial parent an additional obligation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Many men are NOT like that. Stop making up stories. It may be your situation, but its not many. You should have never had kids if you are now going to play the victim and maybe your kids would be better off raised by someone else since you clearly don't enjoy parenting. I feel sorry for your kids. Do you raise them to be victims too?

I don't know any men like that. Maybe he didn't want to be involved with the kids because of you.

However, this is about OP. She posts here constantly about her absentee ex. She posts how much she hates parenting. Either this is fake or she needs to call/email him and tell him she's done being a parent and he needs to move back to the states as soon as he can to take custody.

Her man IS like that so that's all that matters.

Her ex declined 50/50 custody so there isn't anyone who enjoys parenting her kids more than her. Her ex enjoys it even less. For the purposes of her kids, OP is the only parent standing up, no matter how she's feeling about it.

I don't believe you when you say you don't know any men who leave on extended business assignments.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Many men are NOT like that. Stop making up stories. It may be your situation, but its not many. You should have never had kids if you are now going to play the victim and maybe your kids would be better off raised by someone else since you clearly don't enjoy parenting. I feel sorry for your kids. Do you raise them to be victims too?

I don't know any men like that. Maybe he didn't want to be involved with the kids because of you.

However, this is about OP. She posts here constantly about her absentee ex. She posts how much she hates parenting. Either this is fake or she needs to call/email him and tell him she's done being a parent and he needs to move back to the states as soon as he can to take custody.

Her man IS like that so that's all that matters.

Her ex declined 50/50 custody so there isn't anyone who enjoys parenting her kids more than her. Her ex enjoys it even less. For the purposes of her kids, OP is the only parent standing up, no matter how she's feeling about it.

I don't believe you when you say you don't know any men who leave on extended business assignments.

Of course men deploy and travel as do women. But, op constantly posts complaining. Dad needs to come back and take these kids. We don’t know the full story. He may have wanted shared custody.