If you are 55+, do you ever think of people you dated in your 20s?
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Anonymous
| Yes or no? M or F? |
Anonymous
| You mean, other than the person I got married to? |
Anonymous
| Yes, my first loves and the jerks. Most of the rest are forgettable. |
Anonymous
| Yes, since I am married to her. |
Anonymous
| Female. Yes, of course. I'm glad I had fun in those years but I am very happy with what I have now. No regrets. |
Anonymous
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only in the sense that it would've been a disaster if I married that person, even though I felt a lot of passion for this person.
-F |
Anonymous
| Male - sure but not with regret because I married the perfect person. I know how some of their lives turned out and it's mostly not very pretty or simply sad. |
Anonymous
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Yes, it's perfectly normal. I had great times with some of these women, awful times with others. These were formative years for me - why would I not look back on them and think about women who were part of that?
And at the end of my 20's I met my wife - who I happily think about constantly! |
Anonymous
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Sure, female here, I think about them. I've googled them to find out what happened to them. But I'm totally not interested in them romantically. Most of them were good people but I'm just a different, more mature person than I was then. I assume they are too and I wish them well.
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Anonymous
| Sure! I had some significant relationships. Female. |
Anonymous
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Yes.
Somewhere in me is a book to be written, about a recent widow visiting the women he dated when he was younger, exploring his life and theirs. |
Anonymous
| All the time. I've done internet searches to see how/what they are doing. I reached out with an e-mail, never got a response and left it at that. |
Anonymous
| Yes. Unfortunately for me I was young and carefree, not ready to settle down. Every person person I dated would have been better than dh. |
Anonymous
| Hands up everyone who is a creepy stalker! |
Anonymous
Wut? |