wife angry because I made noise getting daughter ready for school
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Anonymous
| Wife just threw coffee cup across kitchen shattering it on floor with coffee in it because she is angry that I woke her up opening the bedroom door this morning when I was getting daughter ready for school. I wake up and do breakfast for everyone and get kids to school. Wife usually gets up around 9. She got angry while I was getting kids ready and said some mean stuff to me. She is ranting about wanting a divorce. I simply do not deserve this. |
Anonymous
| Yikes. Is she bi polar? That sounds pretty manic. |
Anonymous
| Holy moly. Does she work nights or something? Why does she sleep so late? Your poor kids. |
Anonymous
| Sounds hormonal. Not that being hormonal makes it okay. |
Anonymous
| she doesn't work. that is simply her schedule. |
Anonymous
| "mean stuff"?? |
Anonymous
Wow. You need to stop getting up with the kids unless she's recovering from cancer or something. |
Anonymous
| Troll. |
Anonymous
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That IS an overreaction. You need to tell her she is over-reacting, needs a medical check-up for possible physical causes of irritability (hyperthyroidism comes to mind), and if all is normal, therapy to learn how to control her emotions.
I get angry when my husband makes too much noise and wakes up our kids, who need more sleep than he does. But I don't throw things or talk about divorce. |
Anonymous
Right. Do better, OP. |
Anonymous
yeah, ridiculous stuff. She followed me into the bathroom saying that I don't care about her feelings and I was rude for opening the door loud and a bunch of other stuff I simply tuned out. I told her that her behavior is abusive and then she just got worse. |
Anonymous
| If the roles were reversed folks'd be up in arms saying OP should call the cops and have that abusive husband arrested. |
Anonymous
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Hmmm...Lets see.
I am a SAHM. My DH lets me sleep in and he handles the morning breakfast, packing lunch and taking kids to school. They are very quite in the morning as not to disturb me, so I am quite surprised that you did not show the same courtesy to her. I think you are being passive-aggressive because you actually don't want her to sleep in and you resent that she is at home. I have only one thing to ask you - is she a part time speech therapist who only made $18K last year? 
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Anonymous
| OP, how about you stop washing your hands frequently? That will show her! |
Anonymous
| Why did you make noise when she was sleeping. That is very rude. |