wife angry because I made noise getting daughter ready for school

[Anonymous]

OP, are you the poster with the daughter (only child) who is about to go off to college, and you've been posting for years about the dysfunction in your home?

Your wife sounds abusive. You need to get out. What are you waiting for?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wife usually gets up at 9, you woke her up earlier by mistake, but she "just" threw a coffee cup before you posted at 11:53? What happened in the 3 or so hours between her waking up and throwing the cup?

NP here. Maybe, just maybe, he had a fight with her at 8, then he had to take his kids to school, get to work, and actually work for a while before he had time to get on DCUM to post.

If you're a SAHP who doesn't understand what a day with school drop-offs and work is like, you shouldn't be giving OP the third degree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Plus one that you woke her deliberately because you don’t want her sleeping in or staying home and you’re not man enough to tell her that. If you get a divorce you’ll need to pay her and you’ll still need to get the kids ready in the morning some days.

If OP were a woman complaining that her lazy husband slept in, you'd be agreeing with her. I think YOU are the troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Two sides to a story. His, hers and the truth. For some reason I think OP does go out of his way to disturb his wife because guarantee he’s resentful. This makes the most sense in this scenario.

So what? Why the hell does a SAHM with kids in school need to sleep in? She can wake up, help get them ready, then go right back to sleep after the kids go to school. That's what my SAH husband does after we leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:she doesn't work. that is simply her schedule.

Wow. You need to stop getting up with the kids unless she's recovering from cancer or something.

Wow, just wow. She does not work and jsut sleeps in every day. Amazing.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you live in a house. How can you not keep quiet in a house? We live in 1-bedroom apartment and I can get up and DC ready without waking DH.
DH on the other hand wakes me every morning with the light from the closet and won't turn it off until he leaves.
How long have you been doing it for her to lose it like that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Two sides to a story. His, hers and the truth. For some reason I think OP does go out of his way to disturb his wife because guarantee he’s resentful. This makes the most sense in this scenario.

So what? Why the hell does a SAHM with kids in school need to sleep in? She can wake up, help get them ready, then go right back to sleep after the kids go to school. That's what my SAH husband does after we leave.

I agree. But two people can talk about this like adults. Loudly walking in and out of the bedroom isn’t the way to go.

Also, we don’t know the deal. Maybe he works late, and breakfast is the only time OP gets to see his daughter. Maybe they are retired and neither of them work. Maybe he likes to fix himself some complicated breakfast every morning, and he fixes something for his daughter too.

[Anonymous]

She has a bad case of roid rage.