To be fair, have you ever hear of the abuse at the boy scouts? Or form coaches at high schools? Abuse is not just at Christian camps. It’s in every organization where kids are involved. They are preyed upon. Doesn’t mean you don’t let your kids go to high school or join a team.
Anonymous wrote:No updates on the Iveys. Jamie was my little sister's youth group leader and my parents are friends with her parents, and everyone has basically gone underground. I think she was blindsided by this and I'm sure there's a lot of grief and trauma being processed right now. There's no way you don't second-guess everything that's happened over the last 15 years and wonder if any of it was real at this point.
I hope for the best for them, especially the kids. They're all high school and college age so they absolutely know what's going on, there's no shielding them.
Between this, the revelation of cover-ups at the highest level among Southern Baptists of sexual predators in the denomination--often youth pastors--and the Camp Kanakuk (I might be spelling that wrong) revelations, I think a lot of people are feeling deeply disillusioned. My parents are lifelong Souther Baptists, and I mean Sunday school teachers, deacon, missionaries, the whole nine--and my mom recently said in despair "is there anyone left we can trust?" My dad said "I don't know, but <7-year-old grandson> can't go to Christian camp." That is HUGE. Seeing my nephew go to Christian camp would have been my dad's dream at one point, and now he's like nope, not worth the risk.
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