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I love my DH, I really do. And I still find him very handsome and our sex life is fine.
But my youngest has a good friend whose dad is just so handsome and- this is the part that kills me- just incredibly attractive as a person. He's super witty, thoughtful, actually listens to people, etc. I've had actual dreams about being with him. Multiple times. Vivid I feel like a jackass, sometimes I blush when talking to him and I imagine he has to know and is probably laughing at me. I can't be the only one that is drawn to a kid's friend's parent? |
| Ooooh I love a good scandal! Reckon you should do it, and if you do, please live in my neighborhood so we can all talk endlessly about it at the bus stop. |
Haha, nope! Me too, OP. I really like the mom too, so I’m glad she found someone so awesome. Crushes can be fun and harmless
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| OP here. I would never even get close to it. I just wish I didn't want to so bad. I will see him tonight at a thing and I have butterflies in my stomach thinking about it. It's ridiculous. |
There is no shame. In my culture this is referred to as hooering. It's a part of life. |
| You know I wish that I had Jessie’s girl... |
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I had a crush like this. Guy made me question whether I'd married too soon. I avoided him until it faded.
Solidarity, OP. |
| Totally normal, OP. Enjoy it and bring the energy home to DH. Just don't be alone with him and alcohol. I speak from experience. Poor decisions but amazing sex. Fortunately it's remained our secret |
| Know that if he was as amazing as you think, he would never cheat with you. |
| You should definitely do that. It’s a great idea and will turn out very well for everyone involved! |
| You're not the only one. |
| The mother of a friend of my daughter's is really, really hot. But, (i) I love my wife, (ii) her husband is a great guy, and (iii) she is an incredible bitch. So, while there are occasional fantasies, no real interest. |
| Enjoy the fantasy the next time you are in bed with your husband. Lie face down and imagine he’s the man taking you from behind. No foul! |
also don't forget poster child for poor self control and a jerk? |
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Two things.
Name your Hitachi (you do have one, right?) after him. Convince your H, if you don't already, to do you from behind where you aren't looking into his face while you picture that guy. |