I want to Sleep with My DS's Best Friend's Dad

[Anonymous]

Dear OP,

I am the father of your dear son's best friend. Thanks for saying all those nice things about me. I don't deserve them.

I want you to know that I'm not laughing at you, though you are correct in guessing that I have noticed some awkward glances from you. I might well have asked you out if we had met when we were both young and unattached, but neither of us is available now, so there isn't much point in thinking about that.

If you actually had said aloud what you wrote in your original post, I would have responded more or less as I did just now. Fortunately, you never said anything like that aloud, and I never had to respond, so the next time you see me, you won't know for sure whether I'm the one who wrote this and I won't know for sure whether you are the one who wrote your original post. Fortunately, we, our spouses and our kids will be able to go on with their lives

Best wishes and thank you again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear OP,

I am the father of your dear son's best friend. Thanks for saying all those nice things about me. I don't deserve them.

I want you to know that I'm not laughing at you, though you are correct in guessing that I have noticed some awkward glances from you. I might well have asked you out if we had met when we were both young and unattached, but neither of us is available now, so there isn't much point in thinking about that.

If you actually had said aloud what you wrote in your original post, I would have responded more or less as I did just now. Fortunately, you never said anything like that aloud, and I never had to respond, so the next time you see me, you won't know for sure whether I'm the one who wrote this and I won't know for sure whether you are the one who wrote your original post. Fortunately, we, our spouses and our kids will be able to go on with their lives

Best wishes and thank you again.

You sound more like a woman who suspects her husband wants to bang the kids friends mom more than you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear OP,

I am the father of your dear son's best friend. Thanks for saying all those nice things about me. I don't deserve them.

I want you to know that I'm not laughing at you, though you are correct in guessing that I have noticed some awkward glances from you. I might well have asked you out if we had met when we were both young and unattached, but neither of us is available now, so there isn't much point in thinking about that.

If you actually had said aloud what you wrote in your original post, I would have responded more or less as I did just now. Fortunately, you never said anything like that aloud, and I never had to respond, so the next time you see me, you won't know for sure whether I'm the one who wrote this and I won't know for sure whether you are the one who wrote your original post. Fortunately, we, our spouses and our kids will be able to go on with their lives

Best wishes and thank you again.

You sound more like a woman who suspects her husband wants to bang the kids friends mom more than you.

I'm not surprised you would say that. I think that's one of the reasons why the OP likes me.

[Anonymous]

I had a weird infatuation with someone like this, thank god it passed. It will pass... try and get him out of your mind

[Anonymous]

So many people have turned off their sense of passion and adventure... it's ok to find someone attractive and think 'what if.' If you don't, you're probably dead on the inside and a real load of joy for your dear spouse.

Now I'll sit back and wait for the over-denials...

[Anonymous]

Actually, as the father of Original Poster's dear son's best friend, I have to admit that my imagination has been running quite wildly for the past couple of days. I've enjoyed plenty of "what if" daydreaming. Unfortunately, in addition to imagining the "vivid" stuff, I'm also imagining what our sons would say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love my DH, I really do. And I still find him very handsome and our sex life is fine.

But my youngest has a good friend whose dad is just so handsome and- this is the part that kills me- just incredibly attractive as a person. He's super witty, thoughtful, actually listens to people, etc. I've had actual dreams about being with him. Multiple times. Vivid

I feel like a jackass, sometimes I blush when talking to him and I imagine he has to know and is probably laughing at me.

I can't be the only one that is drawn to a kid's friend's parent?

Please grow up, because you’re sounding like a jackass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love my DH, I really do. And I still find him very handsome and our sex life is fine.

But my youngest has a good friend whose dad is just so handsome and- this is the part that kills me- just incredibly attractive as a person. He's super witty, thoughtful, actually listens to people, etc. I've had actual dreams about being with him. Multiple times. Vivid

I feel like a jackass, sometimes I blush when talking to him and I imagine he has to know and is probably laughing at me.

I can't be the only one that is drawn to a kid's friend's parent?

Please grow up, because you’re sounding like a jackass.

Way to be open minded... you sound like a jackass

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a weird infatuation with someone like this, thank god it passed. It will pass... try and get him out of your mind

I remember you. And it was mutual.