ExH bought former mistress/now gf ring with divorce settlement
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Anonymous
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I shouldn't care.
But I just learned that my ex-husband used a part of his divorce settlement (my money, basically) and bought his former mistress/now girlfriend an engagement ring. His cousin told me. We've been divorced for eight months. This stings. WTF?!?! |
Anonymous
| Sorry, op. He sucks. |
Anonymous
| Well, it stings that he moved on so quickly, but with which money he bought the ring is immaterial. Money is money. |
Anonymous
| The mistress is the loser really. She’ll realize soon enough. |
Anonymous
| I’m so sorry, OP. It’s so unfair. He sucks. And the ring is the only thing of value that she’s getting in this deal. Good riddance. |
Anonymous
| It’s not your money. I get that it hurts, but don’t be silly. |
Anonymous
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It will end in less than 3 years. He will be miserable, broke and twice divorced.
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Anonymous
| OP - Funny thing is I kinda saw the ring thing coming. Sucks that I was right!! |
Anonymous
| It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money. |
Anonymous
His cousin is an asshole. Feel it then move on. |
Anonymous
| It’s his money. |
Anonymous
OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right? |
Anonymous
| How much was the ring? |
Anonymous
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It’s a cheap way to get rid of him though.
I’d call it a deal. |
Anonymous
A total asshole. We were always friendly, but this felt like a rub. Feeling it and moving on for sure. |