ExH bought former mistress/now gf ring with divorce settlement

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s a cheap way to get rid of him though.

I’d call it a deal.

Yes, I like that! Perspective is everything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

We don't, because you just posted about feeling terrible about it. You could have just told is your ex is engaged to someone else after just 8 months. Sorry about that. Your best revenge is to live life fully.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

No, I didn't. I am PP. You said in the OP that he bought it with "my money, basically" which is incorrect.

[Anonymous]

It is his money and he can do whatever he wants with it. You need to move on with your life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

We don't, because you just posted about feeling terrible about it. You could have just told is your ex is engaged to someone else after just 8 months. Sorry about that. Your best revenge is to live life fully.

Well, yes, I do feel terrible about handing my ex money and him running to a jewelry store to buy his mistress an engagement ring, you know, with the money I just handed him. Eight months later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

No, I didn't. I am PP. You said in the OP that he bought it with "my money, basically" which is incorrect.

NP. Don’t be obtuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

No, I didn't. I am PP. You said in the OP that he bought it with "my money, basically" which is incorrect.

NP. Don’t be obtuse.

It's not her money anymore. Facts are facts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

We don't, because you just posted about feeling terrible about it. You could have just told is your ex is engaged to someone else after just 8 months. Sorry about that. Your best revenge is to live life fully.

Well, yes, I do feel terrible about handing my ex money and him running to a jewelry store to buy his mistress an engagement ring, you know, with the money I just handed him. Eight months later.

You didn’t hand him the money, it’s the money he was entitled to in the divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

We don't, because you just posted about feeling terrible about it. You could have just told is your ex is engaged to someone else after just 8 months. Sorry about that. Your best revenge is to live life fully.

Well, yes, I do feel terrible about handing my ex money and him running to a jewelry store to buy his mistress an engagement ring, you know, with the money I just handed him. Eight months later.

I get your anger; you built a life thinking it was all fair and square, and didn’t count pennies ... until you did. Now it’s suddenly gone, the money has changed color, and you aren’t supposed to be invested.

How about this OP. Using divorce money to buy an engagement ring for your mistress that caused the divorce is just a really bad seed to plant. I could see if he didn’t have an affair with her before. Karma is real.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

No, I didn't. I am PP. You said in the OP that he bought it with "my money, basically" which is incorrect.

NP. Don’t be obtuse.

It's not her money anymore. Facts are facts.

There are more facts than those you’re paying attention to. Hence my request that you not be obtuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

We don't, because you just posted about feeling terrible about it. You could have just told is your ex is engaged to someone else after just 8 months. Sorry about that. Your best revenge is to live life fully.

Well, yes, I do feel terrible about handing my ex money and him running to a jewelry store to buy his mistress an engagement ring, you know, with the money I just handed him. Eight months later.

She is no longer his mistress and you are no longer his wife. His life decisions should not be your business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

No, I didn't. I am PP. You said in the OP that he bought it with "my money, basically" which is incorrect.

NP. Don’t be obtuse.

OP - seriously!!

[Anonymous]

Guess it’s her money now, or soon will be.

[Anonymous]

You care too much about your ex husband

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's his money if he got it in the divorce settlement. It's not yours. Whether or not he is a jerk is a different matter, but he can do what he wants with his own money.

OP - You do know that I realize all of this, right?

We don't, because you just posted about feeling terrible about it. You could have just told is your ex is engaged to someone else after just 8 months. Sorry about that. Your best revenge is to live life fully.

Well, yes, I do feel terrible about handing my ex money and him running to a jewelry store to buy his mistress an engagement ring, you know, with the money I just handed him. Eight months later.

I’d be pissed too, but honestly, you have no bearing whatsoever on his ratchetness. It’s not a reflection of your value or worth. That is ALL him/her. Rise above the grime. Be thankful you can start 2020 with a clean slate. Keep your hard from being cold about this, and you will open the door to something wonderful down the road.