| So, I heard of a local doctor in the NOVA area who tolerates a wife who cheats on him. She has a boyfriend right now who she flaunts in front of him, and during their first & second marriage, she cheated multiple times, moved out many times, had a child with one of these men, got divorced, and then came back to him and actually got re-married to him. Phew! I think I have that right. What kind of man would tolerate this? Take out the possibility of an open marriage. Discuss! It's an idea that is so perverse that it fascinates me. |
| If they have kids, because he will more likely than not lose the kids and often get every other weekend and maybe one week day in less she moves away and then at best one holiday and 1/2 the summers. |
It’s UNLESS. UN. LESS. How are you an English speaking adult with an internet connection who can’t spell “unless” |
You are charming aren't you. |
| Perhaps you meant to ask why does a person tolerate a cheating spouse? |
Sure, but in this case it's a man tolerating a cheating wife. In this particular instance. And no, they do not have children together. The wife's daughter with one of her previous boyfriends is his step-daughter. |
If he's close to her, in a divorce he'd lose any contact with stepdaughter. |
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The fear of being alone.
Period. |
| Because these people are crazy and can not tolerate stable relationships. |
| Arm candy. |
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Better the devil you know. |
| My SO (I am not interested in marrying) has told me that he knows the other guy will become hooked and he has no intention of cutting himself off from what he enjoys. He seems to kind of get a thrill from it. |
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He’s a cuck...
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Cuck has its roots in cuckold, an old-fashioned term for a man whose wife is having sex with another man.
The term cuckold has a long history as an insult implying that a specific man is weak and emasculated, and may even feel pleasure at his own humiliation. The shortened form "cuck" arose in this manner as an Internet insult, and it also refers to a genre of interracial pornography in which a white married woman spurns her white husband for sex with a black man. The white husband is thus cuckolded or "cucked" |
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I know one man who has stayed in a marriage after his wife cheated twice on him. It was because of the children and it was financially better for him to stay.
Another I know of stayed because she was a nymphomaniac who would have been wild in bed. Even after she moved out to live with the other man he was still trying to get her back. That and he had some weird obsession with each women that left him. He literally stalked them until he got back with them or eventually he moved on to the next female, so he was mentally unstable. |