DH looked up a hot girl on FB
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Anonymous
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I was on my husband’s phone the other day for something else and randomly checked his fb and saw that in the recent searches he had been searching this hot local girl who appears to work in his building.
I was stunned. I then checked his messages and saw that just earlier this week he was telling his coworker he saw the “hot girl” while he was working out in the gym. They’re both talking about how attractive she is. Erm...  what do I do?
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Anonymous
| Friend request her. |
Anonymous
| Nothing. |
Anonymous
| Stop snooping on your husband. That's what you do. |
Anonymous
| Stop snooping on your DH’s FB. |
Anonymous
It's DCUM tradition that you panic and get a lawyer.
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Anonymous
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tl;dr - your husband thinks some woman who works in his building is hot, and discussed it with his friend.
What do you do? Whatever you had planned on doing today. This does not need to be separately addressed. |
Anonymous
| You didn’t randomly check his FB. There’s a reason ... what is it? |
Anonymous
Sure you were. |
Anonymous
| Do you happen to know what people did with the original namesake college facebooks? |
Anonymous
Not just his FB, but his recent searches on FB and his messages. You're freaking out because you already thought he was cheating on you, OP. What you've uncovered doesn't look like much to me, but if you give the backstory to explain why you hacked his social media in the first place it's probably a worse picture. |
Anonymous
| Sorry, that sucks and is not cool, but it could be worse. I wouldn't do anything. |
Anonymous
| Lol I love how you say you were on the phone for something. So how does that justify snoooping on FB? DH and I let each other use our phones...I never Snoop. |
Anonymous
| Meh, I've been curious about a couple of random guys since I've been married (exes, past crushes, my kid's gymnastics teacher). I have no intentions to cheat whatsoever, I'm just nosy. I agree with a PP though, that you were looking in the first place which means that something deeper is likely going on. |
Anonymous
| This is always the dilemma of Pandora’s box. If you snoop, you have to be ready to accept that you’re going to find what you were looking for. |