50 Shades of Gray - handcuffs
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Anonymous
| My DH and I were at a bar yesterday evening and somehow the subject of 50 Shades came up. He's never read the book or seen the movie (jokingly said he was waiting for the musical) so I told him a bit about it and the special room he had. He said maybe we should get some handcuffs and see how that works and I just laughed and said something like why not. About an hour later I go to the ladies room and when I get back he said "Amazon will deliver the handcuffs tomorrow!". We've never used sex toys before and we do have a good sex life so I'm torn between "this could be fun" or "are you serious". I'm not a prude but I've never had bondage fantasies. If this happened to you what would you do? |
Anonymous
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He tossed out an idea to see how you would react, and you didn't object. Or maybe you were doing the same thing, and he took the bait! Enjoy!
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Anonymous
| Celebrate and bust open a bottle of wine. He’s a keeper. |
Anonymous
| I think you should invest in a leather bra and panty set to match his enthusiasm. |
Anonymous
| Lawd, stop stressing and have some fun with your husband sheesh. |
Anonymous
If you decide not to keep him, send him over to my house! The only decision I'd be making is who gets hand cuffed first? |
Anonymous
| Have fun with it. Maybe you both enjoy it, maybe not. The only way to really optimize your sex life is to keep trying new things while recognizing it's no big deal if whatever it happens to be doesn't work out. |
Anonymous
| My wife & I have played with handcuffs and tying hands, but I've never felt like it's worked terribly well because our bed doesn't have rungs on the head board to secure the cuffs or rope. We could move off the bed or maybe get a lot of rope to reach from the bed legs to her arms, but we've never been committed enough to the idea for that level of effort. |
Anonymous
| Read up and let your fantasy runs wild on how to use it. Have fun. |
Anonymous
+1. It all starts from there and once you begin... shibari |
Anonymous
| We have some really nice lined leather ones, lined thigh cuffs, bindings and a matching leather and rose gold spreader bar. Fun times are frequently had. |
Anonymous
| He should have ordered a butt plug, too. |
Anonymous
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One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.
No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross. |
Anonymous
I was just about to post this. I was the kinky one. Took some convincing to get DH to try restraints. Now he’s got books! |
Anonymous
Move outside the bedroom. |