50 Shades of Gray - handcuffs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Move outside the bedroom.

+1 use your creativity here and read up on knots bc it can be fun to be knotty

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you should invest in a leather bra and panty set to match his enthusiasm.

Agree

[Anonymous]

So sexual fantasy are pretty narrow. Someone can like high heel boots and handcuffs but when the handcuffs go on it freaks you out. You may want to talk about what the expectation are and what turns you on(and off). There are a lot of power dynamics involved. You have to make sure everyone is in the right role.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Move outside the bedroom.

You don’t have to be tied to anything. Or try another piece of furniture.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

They make anchors for your bed frame. And cross mattress straps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Move outside the bedroom.

I don't want rug burns. And we are too old to do it on the floor now. Bad back

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

They make anchors for your bed frame. And cross mattress straps.

I added discreet eye bolts to the corners under the bed. Invisible to anyone, but always available to attach the ropes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Amazon sells under the mattress restraints for about $20. Comfortable and very easy to hide.

[Anonymous]

you wouldn't have brought this up, even in a joking manner, if you weren't at least curious to experiment. stop putting this on him - you opened the door and in fact, you were "testing" him. He stepped up (i.e., called your bluff) now your acting butt hurt.

[Anonymous]

I am so freaking jealous of married couples that have a sex life. Don't waste this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Move outside the bedroom.

I don't want rug burns. And we are too old to do it on the floor now. Bad back

My DH loves it on the floor if there is a bed cover under him. He has a bad back and it really works for him. It helps that we have a fireplace in our MBR.

[Anonymous]

I'd probably say are you kidding, are you serious, who do you think I am but then I'd think it could really be different and maybe fun. So many people complain about how boring there sex life is and here is a guy who is trying to amp it up in a pretty tame way. Now that I've written this I'm thinking I may need my DH to see this thread.

[Anonymous]

My attitude would be why not see if I or we like it and he has to promise to remove the handcuffs before the kids come in at 5am. I'm far from being crazy sexually but handcuffs might be fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you should invest in a leather bra and panty set to match his enthusiasm.

Agree

God i totally want that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Trust me, he’s into the butt put / anal, but be sue he know you’re not he doesn’t push the issue.