50 Shades of Gray - handcuffs

[Anonymous]

I think if my husband bought handcuffs I feign shock (you don't like our sex life?) and then I'd say he has to go first in terms of being handcuffed. Then I'd blackmail him about something with my IPhone nearby and then I would really take advantage of him. I'm not sure exactly what would happen but I would love to have the opportunity.

[Anonymous]

Heck, why not go for it. Even if you have a good sex life a little bit of bondage fun sounds like fun.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Move outside the bedroom.

You don’t have to be tied to anything. Or try another piece of furniture.

This is what we do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think if my husband bought handcuffs I feign shock (you don't like our sex life?) and then I'd say he has to go first in terms of being handcuffed. Then I'd blackmail him about something with my IPhone nearby and then I would really take advantage of him. I'm not sure exactly what would happen but I would love to have the opportunity.

You sound like a lot of fun.

In most kinky couples we know, the split is about 40% submissive female, 40% submissive male, and 20% switch. Nothing wrong with the female being dominant. I’m the submissive by nature, but I don’t mind watching FemDom p*rn. The difference between those women and you is the deep respect they have for their partners while your first thought is blackmail. Please don’t even engage in any sexual activity that involves power exchange. It’s people like you who give kink a bad name.

[Anonymous]

We’ve done this but you really need cushioned cuffs to avoid hurting your wrists. I’m not really the submissive type but it is fun to just lie back and see what happens. My DH will start with a foot massage and then work his way up with some fun stops along the way. When my DH wears them it is fun to be in complete control. He’s very ticklish so I can drive him crazy and then “have my way with him”.

[Anonymous]

OP here - I wasn’t sure about the handcuffs but last night we used them for the first time on me and it was a pretty wild experience. Since most of the work is up to the man it was quite nice to see what my husband is capable of and he delivered very nicely. Now he has me thinking about what I will do to him when he is cuffed to the bed.

[Anonymous]

Keep it spicy in the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

We have silk scarves in the nightstand. And chose a bed with slats?

[Anonymous]

I’m pretty conservative and while my initial reaction would be -are you serious - I’d go with it. I like the idea of a husband who is trying to make ones love life more exciting.

[Anonymous]

I might not like handcuffs but I’d give my husband credit for wanting to amp things up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I might not like handcuffs but I’d give my husband credit for wanting to amp things up.

Honey, is that you?

[Anonymous]

Have fun but not being able to use my hands, or being teased annoyed the hell out of me. It was not pleasurable after a point. Seriously have a 'safe' word and an 'annoyance/let's move this along' word.

I can't even imagine jacking with that nowadays with three small kids and DH and I traveling a lot for work. We have needs and limited time!

[Anonymous]

We use handcuffs every once in awhile simply to mix things up. We have a very good sex life but it can get predictable so doing different things can really spice it up. The handcuffs can create some fun roll playing but it never gets out of hand. I like it because it leads to us doing things we don’t normally do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We use handcuffs every once in awhile simply to mix things up. We have a very good sex life but it can get predictable so doing different things can really spice it up. The handcuffs can create some fun roll playing but it never gets out of hand. I like it because it leads to us doing things we don’t normally do.

No need for handcuffs when you’ve got a closet full of outdated scarves going to waste. Tieing your wrists or ankles together requires that you get creative which can be a lot of fun.

[Anonymous]

I agree with having a safe word. DH & I like to play with ropes, handcuffs, whips, etc. I’ve only used our word twice, when I started feeling trapped and claustrophobic.

In real life I like to be in control. In bed, I like to give it up.