My ex is now engaged to the woman he was cheating on me with

[Anonymous]

Title says it all. I just feel sad.

[Anonymous]

Sorry op. I’m sure that’s a bit of a stab to the heart. Hugs.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry. You deserve better. He will cheat on her too.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry, op. I agree with pp, he will cheat on her too.

[Anonymous]

My bil cheated on my sister and he married the woman. I met her a few times and she always kept her head down or avoided being in my presence. What she did was shameful and she knew it. Three kids and a decade later they’re divorcing. He’s a bastard and always will be. Don’t worry about it op.

[Anonymous]

How fortunate that you are now free to move on and meet someone worthy of you.

If you are spending your time focusing on your x, how is that going?

Have you considered a counselor and/or focusing on you?

[Anonymous]

The stats for it working out aren't good. Imagine the trust issues! Do you have kids, OP?

[Anonymous]

Huge OP. My ex married the woman he cheated with last summer. He chose to announce it to me on what would have been our anniversary. We have a bunch of summer kid events coming up that she’s going to be attending so I’ll get to see them being all cutesy together a whole bunch of times. Trying to remember that I have the moral high ground here and that (based on past events) she’s more uncomfortable than I am at being around each other. And before someone accuses me of it, no I’m not rude to her or anything.

Just looking forward to the day when it’s not still raw. I will say, the anticipation is worse than the actual day. I hope this becomes true for you too, OP, and that his marriage turns out to give you some sense of closure.

[Anonymous]

Sigh-the was supposed to say Hugs. Not Huge!

[Anonymous]

Do u have kids?

[Anonymous]

“How fortunate that you are now free to move on and meet someone worthy of you. “

+1. Send her flowers and thank her for taking him off your hands. Crappy people aren’t worth the mental energy.

[Anonymous]

OP, rest assured, they will get what they deserve. I've seen it time and time again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

“How fortunate that you are now free to move on and meet someone worthy of you. “

+1. Send her flowers and thank her for taking him off your hands. Crappy people aren’t worth the mental energy.

She did you a massive favor. Once I worked my way through the grief of my marriage ending I realized how much better off I was. I would rather be alone with my cats than with an asshole like my ex. (Not single but would have been fine with it.)

[Anonymous]

This happened to me, OP.

They got married. Then he cheated on her, and then they got divorced. Once a cheater always a cheater. Be thankful he's not your problem anymore, and his now the other woman's problem.

I'd say you dodged a bullet! Go forward and live your life with a clean conscience!

[Anonymous]

This is why when a relationship ends you let it go.
You don't cyberstalk people on social media looking at their Facebook and Instagram posts daily.