| There’s this man at my coffee shop a few mornings per week. Drives a very expensive luxury SUV, with a prestigious college sticker. Well groomed. Nice watch. He’s always wearing Lululemon casual clothing and spotless running shoes or casual sneakers. Is there some high-paying job I’m not aware of that allows this dress code? Or maybe inheritance or SAHD. |
| Strike up a conversation and ask him what he does. |
| He is gay. |
| It security |
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How often do you see him?
If it’s more than a month of daily run-ins, you should chat him up and get his story. |
| Gay and living with his boyfriend. |
Really? I should mention this to my kid who loves computers and hates dressing up. And has a natural aptitude for sneakiness. |
dress code? What company/organization/employer still has dress code other than police, fire, EMT type of jobs. |
| He has a sugar mama. |
IT remote worker in a speciality like AWS. |
| So gay. |
PP again. He could also be a VP or such in a company which requires only 2 or 3 days in the office. This sounds like some of our Dir. level people. |
| Maybe he works out in a gym before changing into his work clothes. |
Maybe he made the money himself and now he's taking time off or doing self-employed projects. Maybe he goes to work late. Maybe he's a con artist and the clothes and car are just to trick marks. |
| He could easily have already had a lucrative exit event (sale or IPO.) |